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Biswajit (It Executive)     09 August 2013

Please help me sir/madam

Dear Sir/Madam,

I got arrange married in Hindu marriage act on 6th Feb, 2013.But from starting she creates lot of disturbing things, but I ignore that again and again. After married she stay with me only 11 days and went to her father's home for given H.S exam. It was started from 13th march but she left me on 22th Feb. I agreed with her. As she had final examination. But she told me that her exam was completed on30th March when last date of her exam was 26th march. Her elder sister invited me on 24th March. I went there. On 25th March at morning I knew that her exam was completed at 26th march. Then I told her. She denied. Then I want to see the admit card. But she was uninterested to show it to me.

Finally she accepted it. But she was disagreeing to come my home. I didn’t know why? I also talk with her mother then I knew that her uncle came with his family on 27th March. That day was HOLI. Then I told her mother that from 22th Feb to now she was staying here but it is my request to you I want to take my wife with me to my home as my father and mother also wants to see her a lot. But I failed. Her Parents didn’t send her with me and very sadly I came my home alone. After reaching home I was totally shocked to know that my wife told to my mother over mobile phone that she was not s*xually satisfied. And I am a drinker, smoker. But the truth was before marriage when I was going to see her first time that day I told her that I am light smoker and I drink occasionally. Then my mother spoke with her and told whatever was true. In between I reached my home and spoke with her. Told her what she wants? She told me that she want divorce.

But finally I didn't know why she came back again. She came to my home after a big meeting in my home between my parents and her parents. The day was 10th April. Then she looked like she was really sorry for everything whatever she did. And I also forgot everything. Doing normal behave with her.

Between 11th April to 1st June I was faced a lot of different things. There was only one person stay with her that was my mother. I and my father leave home with in 9.00 am and came back home after 9.00 p.m. She did exactly opposite thing which I didn’t like. Each an everyday she got near about 50 to 60 phone calls from her home ground. If I told her go to right direction she was going left. I couldn’t understand why she was doing it. But in my house there are no bindings for her .If she told me I didn’t eat this then I told her leave it. If she told me I like it very much then I bought it for her. Whatever she wants I gave to her. Outside of home she behave well but inside home she do exactly opposite things which was didn’t liked for any one. On 2nd June her father and brother came to my house and told us that her mother was not well. I told her to go with them right now and gave me a call after reached there and told me about her mother how was her health condition. But surprisingly I didn’t receive any response for her. After 1 day on 4th June I gave her a call and then she did exactly previous thing. Told me over telephone  that if I took a room in rent outside  of my locality then she stay with me .She didn't stay in my house with my mother and father. And if I didn't she wants divorce.

But it is not possible for me. I and my family also told her and her parents to come in my place and short out where she got problems and solve it from both side. But they are uninterested. My wife took all furniture and jewellery provided by her father from my home. And sign a paper where written that not possible for her to stay with me. So she and I, both are decided to get mutual divorce from court after one year of marriage.That'swhy she take all of her furniture and jewellery.And except that no furniture and jewellery of her in my home. In this condition she signed this paper.

 

It is my request to you sir right now I am really scared. Because Within 32 days of our relationship she wants divorce twice, within that she offers me to choose either my mother and father or her. And If I was stay with her then I am not sure about her faith, love and respect for me. And I am not sure about her that spending some month or year if she leaves me then I will totally destroy. That’s why I can’t take any chances.

Right now my problem is that I got a job in abroad and I don't miss that opportunity. And if I go is it possible for her to give any trouble to my family? Or if I will stay here is she capable to demand a lot of money from me or my family after one year?

 

Sir I am belongs to a mediocre family. Not possible for me to give her if she wants money from me.

 

Kindly help me Sir.

 

Waiting for your reply Sir…



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 3 Replies


(Guest)

Get mutual settlement & divorce first and clear the first motion then move for your job overseas.Take leave, returned to India for second and final decree of mutual divorce after 6 months.

No way she is going to be yours until or unless you would not become a bolywood actor. It seems your wife is not matured and you are more matured than her.So,compatability issues will be for lifetime.

adv. rajeev ( rajoo ) (practicing advocate)     09 August 2013

If she agreed for the consent divorce then file consent divorce petition under the hindu marriage act in the civil court/ family court.  Court decree is the only rememdy and it is valud

amit sharma (service)     09 August 2013

Govt of india proposed a marriage amendment bill that will harm all males and husbands . 

Bill harms parents of men for sin of being parents and saving for their retirement

This bill proposes that wives can divorce one 
sided after three years and will take away half property of Male 
husband. 
Men will not get any such right so even if wife is richer she takes away the money.

She can stake to  Even your parents' property as law covers property that is inheritable . Where will they go ?

We will be left ...with no choice , yes men will not get 
similar treatment.They will lose all they haVE . Please help in stopping this daylight dacoity .

If you don't believe this may impact you , look around every fourth wiproite knows someone or other going through  a divorce

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