I got married in year 2007 and having two kids. I am a defence employee and mostly remain on the borders. My wife is of a violent nature and always threaten us to arrest all my family on the basis of dowry and domestic violence. As a result all my family members kept themselves away from me. I am now posted in Jammu and bring her with me in family quarters. Here also, she ever prepare a ground for argument and result in quarrels. She always use unparliamentarily words for my mother and my sisters also who have already married and living in their laws. Her brothers also kept her side and met my Commanding Officer with a complaint of assaulting her. Fed up from her day to day threatening I had given her two three slaps few days back. Now she become more violent and also bitten on my hand with her teeth. She was also adulterous before marriage, which I came to after marriage, even then I ignored what had happened in past. But she never respect me or any member of my family. What should I do now, Please save me , otherwise I will do something wrong….
Please advice me :-
If I leave her to her parental home, is there any law that she can arrest my whole family on the basis of false allegation.
I have made my mind for taking divorce from her. How should I initiate the case against her.