Hi. in a very bad situation. used, abused by my wife and her relatives.
i got into an arranged marriage since 2005 and subsequently have 2 lovely kids.
as my inlaws are well to do and in politics. my mother and grand mother thought it is a good alliance and i will do well. even before marriage they wanted us to build a new house for her and shift from my joint family home. for which the elders agreed. my wife did not stay even for 3 days after my marriage in my ancestral home, she started putting her tantrums.... she and her family wanted me to settle down near her residence, for which i disagreed, we have had numerous fights involving her elders and my relatives where everybody including me and my relatives have been humiliated...i have been abused..i have made 3 suicide attempts in 10 years and have shifted 7 homes in 2006 they have given me 5 lakhs by cheque 1 year after marriage and also filed a false ncr against me in 2010 for domestic voilence and for keeping her jewelry....none of my relatives want to come to my help because of fear of my wifes family....my wife and her family are very dominating and they want to control me like a robot. they trap me in situations and blame me for everything..they only want me as a slave.....they want my property..and my income...and in the eyes of the people they project that they dont want any thing....i am always trying to fulfill my wifes needs...and i am becoming bankrupt and a pauper....my career is ruined.....due to family problems i could not hold jobs consistently....and with no money to start any business also...i have some rent income on which i am surviving have given up hope in my life.....from 2012 to 2015 unable to bear their torture i shifted to a rented residence near my inlaws place as per their wish ....and also because i love my kids...where i am currently...but 3 years down i am in depression, and suffering from post traumatic stress disorder, in debt changed 3 jobs i requested my wife to come to my own place so we can save on the rent and lead a normal life....but she is heartless as usual....recently my psychiatrist told me that since my wife and inlaws are narcisists there is little hope of ever changing them with either love or even being obidient to them....the abuse is only going to get worse....i am completely traumatised....please help me...how can i save myself from these monsters?