I have been following this site for about 2 years now. But i don’t have any idea what do? I feel helpless, frustrated, disappointed and harassed. I am a well qualified girl , still i was not able to see what is happening around me...yes, i have been a victim of around the clock verbal abuses, ill treatment and the ever increasing greed of in laws which take their so called daughters-in-law to such an extent that she starts feeling like committing suicide rather than becoming a lifetime sorrow for her parents. But, thanx to my strong family support who supported me such a torrid time.
Only regret now I have is “ why did I tolerate all this non sense “ they took all my hard earned money of my parents , my savings, my jewellery , we paid for his car, i paid for his house loan, electronics , all major expenses and only i m the one who is thrown out from there. WHY? Still i wanted to give my marriage a chance but of no vain instead he started pressuring me to have divorce or else i have to live they wanted me to live and just suffer. I resisted that and at that point i decided that i won’t let them go & that to report what all they have done to me and my child. But then an all together different story and picture came in front of me. This is a reflection of what our society and law is all about.......
I managed to file a 498A case after about 4 months of continuous struggle... i had an idea of what lies in future. Only money and power rules here...
I was made to run pillar to post whereas the culprits sat in their houses with great ease. They don’t even bother to come whereas i was called again and again... All granted bails easily without a penny being recovered from them and all of us here know ‘HOW ‘.... now after about whole 1 year police started summoning us for the dowry articles and accepting it and all of us here know 'WHY'... what they think of us.... r v some fools????
I know majority believe that girls lie and misuse law & 95% cases are wrong. but people only believe those cases where girls die out of intolerance . What about us? Those 95 girls suffering silently and dying daily out of agony and pain are fools who tried to give their marriage a second chance.....they just think their daughter in laws as an ATM or a saving bank a/c from where they can churn out money , some more money and............
Without giving any disrespect, the reason for me writing in this forum is that i thought it is a right platform to share my experience here as i m really being disappointed by some member of this fraternity only....( not this forum) ..otherwise may be the wrongdoer haven’t got it so easily.......
I respect this profession alot but i feel u r no lesser than the ultimate fate decider of a person.. and i request all the honourable people of this fraternity to make others see the right things in right perspective..........
Only this is my prayer .............
