Please guide me about the procedure of filing a divorce on the basis of mental harassment. also, how the harassment can be proved through which evidence as this was not done publicly. But many of my family relatives are the witness of the behavior of my husband at the time of engagement. I have some of the phone recordings available that could somehow prove that my husband has tried to make me go against my parents and completely revoke my communication with my parents, disgracing of the gift items given to them at the time of marriage by saying all as third class and putting blame of different petty things on my relatives and parents and brother. Moreover he did not consummate the marriage. We tried a lot for reconciliation. But they say that i have to limitise my expenditure to 5000 and rest of the salary should be handed over to mother in law. Also, if some day i leave the job, he will leave me too. And makes me feel inferior by comparing me with every other girl in front by looking at those girls physical appearance. Within 20 days of marriage, he has commented on every single thing and criticized it, whether the gift items, whether the jewellery, even the iron given for clothes, the utensils, the arrangement, parents, me, bro, relatives, everything and everyone, and i have not felt even for a moment that i have married to a human who needs human relationships and feelings for marriage. Anybody could easily judge that he has married to my job and not me because he has clearly stated that i was rejected by him in photograph but he does not know how he said yes unfortunately when met me. Moreover, he has adopted the name of some guruji, that increased my level of faith in him and his family because those who believe god are above from many materialistic objects and know better how to be human and give due love and care to things. i tried my best to do all the household chores just after second day of my marriage. He did not fulfill any of the things that a wife expects her husband to do in 15 days of marriage and put everything as a condition that i must do this and that and then only he would stay, else he will walk out of marriage, threatens on everything that he would go, he is ready for all consequences. When in one incidence, we called for reconcilliation, he said to his parents that he would drive the car into the khaai, in hills, if his parents said anything to him. This make me concern with my life too. But i dont have evidence to prove everything. BUt some recordings can help me prove that atleast some serious problem is there. He tells me to consider him my god and obey him like servant. He is a well educated and highly qualified person. also hsi family. He has sent all the furniture to his empty new house which he wants to rent out, meaning thereby that he took everything of hard earned money of my parents by saying that i will use everything that my parents will give, but unfortunately it is d reverse. He threatened me to take his parents on tour for longer durations and i shall be staying at home as of my job if i dont go by his demands. I really doubt if i am marriedto him or he has purchased me. Please help me out to go through correct procedures that could make my case strong.
