Hi,
I am sarathy from Chennai and have a legal problem and i need your support and guidance on this
am a regular visitor of lawyers club india .com website
Request you to please help me on this ....
Presently :
I have filed for RCR and my wife and their advocate not appeared before court so judge has given the date for EX- Parte Order in favor of me , but today my wife and their advocate were present and submitted the set aside petition ....onthe judgment of RCR
I don't understand the procedures and formalities in court ... please guide me on the same
iam here stating my entire problem below :
Marriage was fixed through matrimony website,my self was working on behalf of icici bank personal loans and was earning well, i told a lie that i have completed degree, but i was having arrears,i did not consult my family for marriage, my wife had a brain tumor knowing this i married her, my family members said no for the marriage, and considering my wife health i asked my father in law to see a house near by them,but unfortunately every thing went bad first i got a loan from my father in law of rs 50000 before marriage, because my father was not financially sound to conduct the marriage,to buy dresses and mangal sutra for my wife for that purpose i borrowed from my father in law,without any interest, and i lost my job in icici after marriage and suffered for 6 months without a proper job so i pledged my wife jewels with her permission for 1,00,000, for which i gave a two blank cheque ,with interest from his friend both are state government employees, without a proper job was paying principal and interest , and my father in law threatened me that i will put a case by depositing your cheque ,for not paying the interest and principal, father in law does not believe me in sending my wife for a living . she had a brain tumor before marriage and i married her by knowing this, due to financial problem i pledged my wife jewel including( 150000). they even taken my jewel which they offered me on my marriage , i want a solution to live with my wife, they tortured me like anything because of this me and my wife got fight between, now they don't believe me sending their daughter with me , i want a solution whether to live with her or to divorce her.even my wife nodding her head what his father say . if she comes and stay alone with me i will take care of her, he used abused words to me and to my father, please suggest me what to do and now i have settled 60k out of 1,5 lakhs .they have taken all the things which they offered me on marriage like fridge, TV, washing machines and other house hold furniture's i have even given my wrist watch which they presented me on my marriage, i don't want their money and other things , am not money minded , my father in law gave me the loan through their friend both are in state government my father in law also done BA LLB , i need a solution for this big problem,i want to live with my wife permanently in my place but they are asking to stay near by them, i think this is not fair,please suggest me on this,
even i went for compromise talks and they are not even bothered about their daughters life please suggest me what to do
Recently i asked suggestion to a lawyer he suggested me to file RCR and but i consulted with my family members they said no for any legal action let them come for solution, please suggest me how to handle this situation, am facing multiple problem in this case
1. I borrowed money
2. they are not allowing my wife to stay with me and on condition they are asking me to come and stay near them
3.they are not respecting my parents when they speak about solution and about compromise
4. Torture from loan lender that i will put your cheque in court
5. they are not ready to come for compromise as we tried many times for compromise and they are blaming about me only, that am not working, am not settled like that.......
Recently i have filed RCR against my wife
on first hearing both my wife and my father in law appeared and we we went for a counseling
on counseling my wife stated that she wants divorce and she is no more interested to live
the reason was am not having any proper job
due to my in law abused me and father with bad and hurt words i did not go and see my daughter and my wife
The counselor asked again do i have any illegal relation ship with some one and do i have bad habit and did i beat her, any dowry
The only mistake i did was i told a lie that i have completed my graduation, but will complete in this year and bought a loan of 1,00,000 for marriage purpose and even i spent for them only, even i have paid 60000, i don't understand why they want divorce even i have a one year old daughter i am most worried about her future.
