Save married life

In short you should insist your wife to withdraw all cases. I don't see any disputes between both of you since both you are living together in one roof. Don't argue with your father in law for anything it is a husband wife dispute and should be resolved between two of you there should not be third party interference.  If i was you i would definately insist my wife to do so.....wish u all the best.

JAY MIYA BIWI RAAZI TO KYA KAREGA KAAZI !!!

Is she your wife or her father's puppet or is there a conspiracy between her and her father? Talk seriously with your wife over the matter and not to blow hot and cold.

Your questions are not clear at all. It appears that you are under confusions .   If proper guidance required, kindly ensure that clear facts are furnished rather than imaginary issues.
 

Lalit... You are lucky she is staying with you. Gather all information/proof  that she is staying with you. Insist her the importance of marriage.i.e. trust. Its like she is keeping a sword on your neck and any day you say anything she will slit ur throat.

Last but not the least ask her to withdraw all the case and live happily.

Dont forget to take a proof of all withdrawals. Tomorrow you may not know.

all the best.

Hmm,

She wants to Keep Naked Sword on your Neck, If She was really interested in Saving marrige, By now she could have Withdrawn All the cases.
 

Remember, 498a is non-compoundable offence. A lot of effort+time is required to nullify it. Her simple withdrawl is not going to bear fruit. Tread wid caution