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Second marriage leading to divorce

Dear All,

This is my and my husband second marriage, initial phase was good but gradually small wear and tear happened , husband fist wife has committed suicide by hanging herself which was not told to us, he has daughter from first wife, and first wife family filed 498A and 304 B on him and family, mine was divorce case, hence both has some past, but this marriage is very much workable, husband due to his first bad experience always suspect me and in negative thinking that i can also file some cases on him due to this thinking he started gathering proofs against me unnecessarily and started takeing advices form lawyers, he left me without any intimation and then i found him with girl.. now  its all mess and misunderstandings between both of us and families.

now husband has filed Divorce hindumarriage act.. I want to save this marriage , i dont want to drag my married life in court cases .. i am not in opinion to file any cases against my huisband and his family despite of great mental, financila trauma i am going through.

 

What steps should I take to save this marriage.... the first hearing is in the month of August.

husband is though very clever he debarred me form his parents property and staying alone in rented room of 6000 and left me alobe in another rented home and i am incurring the expense..

Inlaws are not supporting .. husband finding me weak becasue this is my second marriage...

what steps should i take being indian women to save this marriage.. he is in anger and hate ... and taking life changing decisions in Anger



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Kiran Kumar (Lawyer)     06 July 2012

well all depends upon your self managment.

 

you need to hold patience and find a place in their hearts.

 

law may not help you at this stage to save your marriage....your husband already feels burnt out of legal process so keep your cool and better seek help of elders if necessary.

 

keep in view your own future and mold your behaviour accordingly.

 

good luck.

Adv.R.P.Chugh (Advocate/Legal Consultant (rpchughadvocatesupremecourt@hotmail.com))     06 July 2012

Dear Querist,

You are in a big predicament. But trust me if all that the marriage had was tempramental problems ordinary wear and tear of married life and no big cruelty - then in that case - getting a contested divorce from the court would be extremely difficulkt for your husband, practically impossible. To arm tweist him into taking the divorce back you can file RCR/Maintenance/DV Cases.


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