Should i file divorcee..pls advise

thanks  gautam

hello experts pls reply to my above query for reinstuation of cojugal right u/s 9 of Hindu Marrige Act..pls advise..thanks ashish

Dear Ashish,

The RCR petition has to be unconditional. You can present the problems created by your wife and also present the phone recording. If she agrees to come back than you can request the court to direct her to withdraw all her allegations. However, getting an undertaking of good behaviour will be difficult and will allow her to drag the case.

If she returns and misbehaves at a later stage, you can present that as a reason for a future divorce petition.

Thanks,
Suneet

The RCR petition is a mere waste.  First of all you should not have sent the second notice denying her allegations and asking her to prove the same.  If you know that they are false, you will get chance to prove that had made false allegations through court of law.  Now this RCR will be one more futile exercise and will be a waste of time, money and energy.  You cannot force her to come back and live with you through RCR even it is decreed in your favor.  For the present, you can wait patiently for the events to take turn for atleast another six months period without making any attempt, even making a phone call to her.  Let she break her head getting confused over your dead silence, if she becomes impatient over your silence and makes any effort to reconcile, if the situation is conducive and acceptable, you can decide as per the prevailing  circumstances then.    Any hasty step taken now may put you into more trouble, so think.

R.C.R. is merely waste of time and money , Divorce cannot be a solution rather wastage of money and it will take long time to dispose  Now you are a father and your wife is the mother of your child . This is admittedly  your status in the society.  So your behaviour in the society must be considered as responsible husband and father.  Give up whims,ego and sentiment. Try to reconcile your differences by mutual settlement with the help of your common friends and relatives.  Mind that married life needs some sacrifice form both sides . 

very good advise given by Mr. Biswanath Roy sir,pls follow his advise and try to change your self instead fighting long legal battle 

Rsksingh

The manner in which women resort to 498A and DV to settle scores and do permanent damage, similarly the guy can file some criminal complaint and do permanent damage.  If we introspect, all these actions from guys side/girls side are done to fulfil their ego rather than settling the core issues.