Suicide threats by wife

Hello, 

Thanks for the reply. Her problem is that she doesn't know herself what she really wants. Earlier she wanted a house, I gave her one, then she asked my parents not to visit me, I agreed for that as well, and then she wanted a child inspite of having been told by doctors that she is unfit to be a mother and her disease may pass on to the child.

I adjusted for 5 years as I really loved her and was hpoing against hope that she wiil be cired one day. But I am at the end of my patience now. I am a human being after all and have my own limits.

Please advice.

Thnak you Madam. I appreciate your efforts in counseliing me but I think a man will understand my plight better.

first file a nc in the police station that your wife is issuing suicide threats and her mental stability is in question.then you can proceed with filing a contested divorce on the grounds of cruelty as issuing suicide threats itself constitute cruelty

But please record her threats of suicide before instituting divorce as divorce is granted only if evidences corroborates the allegations, else you will lose the divorce case.

Please check this video where its explained by victims very well  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LvbNTsuLnk8

1st question first. On whose name this house is registered where you are staying. Remember if it is in your name then she has every right to stay in that house as per the DV act. The only way to avoid that property to be a dump property is to sell it out. If it is in join name, then you are in soup bro. 

Stop thinking about filing divorce unless and until you have strong evidence and if you have any evidence against her threats then you must file criminal case before filing for divorce. But i wud advise you not to start the litigation and keep collecting evidences until the time she starts the litigation. More important is to see the house is in whose name, else this property wud be a waste of money.

Originally posted by : Mrs. Renuka Chaudhury,
	You need to understand the plight of the woman.   On one side she is not having good health.   On the other hand you are telling you will leave her. What more can she do to stop you?   She will threaten you that she will kill herself in order to stop you from moving out.   Inspite of the ups and downs and the life that I have seen and my own kids got into trouble after marriage, I still believe that love can change a person.   HUSBAND WIFE job is toughest job in world, all you need is patience.   It is just in you to handle her, nobody can do anything, everything is in your hands, show love, be patient would be my advice, running away is of no use.

Hi,

I would suggest take her to a doctor and start collecting details as mentioned by Renuka Ji....

Suicide threats shouldn't be taken lightly. If she attempts suicide the first Suspect or the Victim would be the Husband.

Pray to God sincerely.

I thank each and everyone of you for the replies you have posted. They have really been helpful. There is just one more question that I have...

Can you please elaborate the procedure to register a NC with the police? I am not a localite and I do not speak the local language, so will the cops co-operate with me? Also, I do not have any proofs right now? Can I still file the NC?