I narrate the small story of my family. My father retired from organization 10 years ago and has 2 sons( One me and my elder brother). In 2005-06, my parents arranged marriage for my elder brother in a reputable position at Govt organization who belonged to same profession. The life was as usual but disturbed due to death of my mother due to cancer in year 2010. After her death, my sister in law left the matrimonial home and demanded jewellery and heavy cash and later served legal notice to my family. We filed the RCR, the matter was solved in Jan 2011 but relations of sister in law was very much strained with my family. Her father started conspiring against us and tried to implicate us through parties in false cases but failed. Now my sister in law again left the home 5 months ago with suspected intentions to join the home
My father has the grievances with my elder brother as my brother wants to take divorce with my sister in law. But never dare to speak anything in front of him but always criticized at his back and constantly commenting about the irresponsible behavior of my brother
My father discouraged me for foreign assignments for growth and never took interest in my marriage and my settlement as his previous stand was that I was working on contract job for last 12 years but was terminated from services one year back and now I am regularized but hardly took interest in my growth
Regarding me; I am Law graduate and my fault was that I didn’t foreign ventures for the well being of my family and I contested cases of my service matter against illegal termination and other fraud committed by my employer as result I had to be unemployed for 1 year and I am the least earner in my family
My brother who holds the reputable position in the Govt Sector and has the grievances that his life has been ruined due to the arranged marriage which was made by father.
Now I seek the expert opinion from you, that who is responsible for all this and who needs to be changed as I am sure from the comments made by the impartial member would definitely impact on our thinking