Hello All Respected People,
I just joined this forum but have been reading the posts here for a while. I am sure that someone will definitely help me in my case.
I am trying to put all my facts straight here.
I have been married since Jan2007. My wife left my house before 6 months of marriage along with all her belongings. Since then she has not shown any intension to cohabit. Her relatives have visited me 2 times and I told them that she can come if she wish to. I have even paid for her mobile number expenses till Mar2008 even though she was not with me. I was hopeful that keeping this channel of possible communication alive may help.
Whenever any communication happened, I told her to come back, but in vain. Hence, in Feb2008, I phoned at her place and spoke with her father, telling that I do not wish to continue this relation and I am open to talk if he they approach. Nothing happened there after.
I have even tried to talk to my friends (turned our common post marriage) about talking to her in Feb2010 (2 yrs after I last spoke). But, I got no response here as well.
In May2010, however, I received a notice from the family court asking for a divorce. They have made many allegations all trying to show cruelty and mental torture. Of course, none is true. They demanded huge alimony stating she needs a house of her own and another huge monthly sum towards the maintainance. My income is much respectable yet I have dependent parents, housing loan, unmarried sister et al.
All through counselling sessions so far I have stated that I am ready to take her back but not ready to give divorce. She is insisting on having a divorce. We have no kid(s).
Please guide.