am posting this topic again because am disabled to post in that thread, people are thinking am fake ... i posted my suffering, am frank ...am from AP in our community dowry demands are high ...my market value was as high as 20 lakhs, thats why my parents and sisters asked them....i know its wrong to take dowry but every one does that and i did same ..whats wrong in that ?? people disguise them self and give lectures but in reality every one does that . even my sisters have daughters we are supposed to give dowry when they get married...In AP , its very common thing..if we wont take dowry , bride parents think that am wrong, having some disability...its a custom and still every one taking ...in that way we also took 6 lakhs cash, but theres no proof of it ...i just need answer how much alimony i have to pay ?? if its compromise how much i have to??? how to save my parents and sister from that b*tch