498a fir to dv act chargesheet

Repeated query 

Respected Ajay Sir,

actually I am from Husband's side. My queries are:

1) 498A FIR was raised by the wife, but there are not evidences regarding demand of dowry only evidence is the audio recording where wife has denied access to grandchild to grandparents and hence quarrel has started and husband has scolded wife in foul language ( loafer, you are cunning, i know your true colors, we are financially better than you , you are acting too smart, b*tch etc)

2) Is such common quarrels sufficient to frame the husband in 498A or DV Case and punish him from court. Please guide me sir,

i don't know should i give in or fight back, wife is a cunning and mean women, Husband can't be happy with her.  Wife wants to take control of Husband's finances and wants to control husband.