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mrgop (Owner)     29 August 2010

Contesting the case of impotency...

Last two years, husband is contesting a annulment/divorce case filed by wife on allegations of his impotency and non-consumation of marriage. They lived together only one month after marriage. The counselling failed and counter filing is over, and i think next stage is evidence submission. So,

please help me to clear the following doubts before proceeding to next stage.

Given below are the main statements from her petition:

1) The marriage was not consumated as husband was not willing and not even tried to consumate it.

2) Husband is not physically AND/OR mentally fit, and not matured for married life. Husband was aware of these problems before marriage and cheated her hiding the facts.

As far as i know doctor can certify only physical fitness for s*x, not mental fitness as in the case of relative impotency. So, most probably she Last two years, husband is contesting a annulment/divorce case filed by wife on allegations of his impotency and non-consumation of marriage. They lived together only one month after marriage. The counselling failed and counter filing is over, and i think next stage is evidence submission. So, please help me to clear the following doubts before proceeding to next stage.

Given below are the main statements from her petition:

1) The marriage was not consumated as husband was not willing and not even tried to consumate it.

2) Husband is not physically AND/OR mentally fit, and not matured for married life. Husband was aware of these problems before marriage and cheated her hiding the facts.

As far as i know doctor can certify only physical fitness for s*x, not mental fitness as in the case of relative impotency. So, most probably she will raise the issue of relative impotency to escape from further complications if i produce any medical certificate on my potency.

a) So, can I use the statement from her petition that "Husband was aware of these problems before marriage and cheated her hiding the facts" which means her allegation on clear case of physical impotency as one comes to know about relative impotency or anyother mental problems related to s*x only after marriage, to prove the case of defamation/mental crueltly in court?

b) Can relative impotency be proved on husband merely on the statement of non-consumation from wife considering the fact that they lived together only one month? What is the base line for proving relative impotency?

c) Can she tell in the court that she is ready to come back once I get medical certificate in my favour? Does the doctrine of approbate and reprobate prohibt her from taking such stand in court ie. first she allege impotency then take benifit of orders, medical checkup, on that allegation?
 

will raise the issue of relative impotency to escape from further complications if i produce any medical certificate on my potency.

a) So, can I use the statement from her petition that "Husband was aware of these problems before marriage and cheated her hiding the facts" which means her allegation on clear case of physical impotency as one comes to know about relative impotency or anyother mental problems related to s*x only after marriage, to prove the case of defamation/mental crueltly in court?
 
b) Can relative impotency be proved on husband merely on the statement of non-consumation from wife considering the fact that they lived together only one month? What is the base line for proving relative impotency?

c) Can she tell in the court that she is ready to come back once I get medical certificate in my favour? Does the doctrine of approbate and reprobate prohibt her from taking such stand in court ie. first she allege impotency then take benifit of orders, medical checkup, on that allegation?
 



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NANDKUMAR .B.SAWANT.M.COM.LL.B.(MUMBAI),ADVOCATE

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REGARDING MATRIMONIAL DISPUTE KINDLY NOTE THAT.

1.ONCE THERE ARE MISUNDERSTANDINGS BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE ,IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO CONVINCE BOTH.RELATIVES AND FRIENDS OF BOTH SIDES ADD FIRE TO THE DISPUTE.AND ULTIMATELY IT ENDS IN DIVORCE.

2.IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO SORT OUT DIFFERENCES IF ANY BETWEEN HUSBAND AND WIFE.INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE IS MOST IMPORTANT SOCIAL BASE. I HAVE REPRESENTED SEVERAL MATRIMONIAL MATTERS FROM BOTH SIDES. KINDLY NOTE THAT IN MOST OF THE DISPUTES THE CAUSE IS VERY MINOR BUT SUBSEQUENTLY IT IS SO COMPLICATED THAT YEARS PASS BUT COUPLE DO NOT AGREE FOR COMPROMISE.THE POOR SMALL CHILDREN SUFFER  ENTIRE LIFE AND HAVE TO FACE IRREPAIRABLE LOSS.

3.IN PRESENT CASE ALSO INSTEAD OF JUST FIGHTING FOR PROVING MEDICAL FITNESS OF HUSBAND AND WIFE ,IT IS ADVISIBLE TO DISCUSS AND SORT OUT THE DIFFERENCES PEACEFULLY.IT WILL PREVENT DEFAMATION OF BOTH.IN CASE IT IS BEYOND COMPROMISE THEN IT IS BETTER TO TAKE DIVORCE AND STAY REMAINING LIFE PEACEFULLY.

LIVE AND LET LIVE.

GOOD LUCK.


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