Well said

well said mr natrajan

Good observation & well said my friend....

Very important for many victims. Thanks for posting....

So what is that you want to say to the readers by your this  post, are you alerting them if so how? Message is alright but who is the taker in a world of  predetermined people around.

YES... your stories are full of morality.........BUT whom are you referring to.. ??

In a divorce case, both parties claim to be the aggrieved party and keep putting blames on each other... They lie so convincingly that others take their lie's to be the truth. This war is more of words.... than physical.  Mental games take over and each day gives u a new experience and newer ideas...to win your case. BUT then in the end..........TIME WINS !!! both parties loose years of their precious life and then repent on doing so. 

A SIMPLE QUESTION --- IF BOTH PARTIES CLAIM TO BE VERY INTELLIGENT AND MATURE........WHY CAN'T THEY SETTLE IT.... MUTUALLY ?????  THEY DO NOT EVEN BOTHER ABOUT THE CHILDREN WHO SUFFER ALL THROUGH THEIR BATTLE IN COURTS....

WHY CAN'T THEY UNDERSTAND...THAT LIFE IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN THESE FIGHTS AND A DIVORCE IS'NT THE END OF THE WORLD.........     

One needs to have strict control over tongue.  Thats the most important thing.  That done, will help one avoid most of the problems.

Only if people would wisely use tongue, there would be no need for police, the court, 

@ Advocate.Kalai Selvan : The message I intend to convey is contained in the MORAL OF THE

STORY.--- Yes, this is a world of pre-determined people. But the takers have to be the

VICTIMS and / or the ones who are about to become victims and are currently hanging

in mid-air and can avoid becoming victims, if they wake up, atleast now.---------------

@ rising up again : Firstly, I must appreciate you for your sharp analysis. The statement that

you have issued " TIME WINS " is the crux of the entire matter..........

@ Helping Hand : Yes, you have hit the nail on the head...You are right...That Tongue....

Root of many problems....But as the proverb in english goes " THE TONGUE SPEAKS

THE MIND "....So, essentially the corrupt mind is at the root............

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Be it at the family court or other places, one commonly observed phenomenon is the

VILLAIN / VILLY --- THAT IS, THE THIRD PERSON, WHO ALMOST ALWAYS HIDES and in

today's society, even has the guts to openly proclaim that he/ she is responsible for the family mess.----

This third person could be the in-laws or brothers or sisters or relatives or friends or

some advocate or some police or some counsellor or some third-party whosoever ----------

Left to themselves, the couple usually sort out their differences over a period of time -------

But these third  party individuals,  treat this as a game and experiment and go about starting the

BREAKING EXERCISE, sustain the crime and finally end up with CURTAINS DRAWN OVER A

SACRED MARRIED LIFE OF TWO INDIVIDUALS BOTH OF WHOM, as you rightly said

end up LOSING YEARS.

____________________ A DISTURBING TREND SEEN TODAY IS

MANY GENUINELY VICTIMIZED MEN BEING RELEGATED TO A DARK CORNER OF

THEIR OWN MIND BY PEELING THE LAYERS OF THEIR NATURAL IDENTITY,

ACROSS MULTIPLE ASPECTS OF LIFE, MIS-USING THE LAW OF THE LAND

AND THE LAW OF NATURE ----------------------------------

ON THE OTHER HAND, WE HAVE GENUINELY VICTIMIZED WOMEN BEING HARASSED

CONTINUOUSLY BY ALL AND THE EVIL MEMBERS OF SOCIETY TRY TO SEXUALLY

UTILIZE HER IN HER MOMENT OF PRIVATE CRISIS -------------------------

ALL this while, the THIRD PARTY who was INITIALLY RESPONSIBLE for this entire mess,

TRIGGERING A FOREST FIRE out of a SMALL SPARK that could have and should have been

extinguished at it's SPARK STAGE ---- That third party, usually moves about

INCOGNITO ( in hiding and invisible and by stealth ) as if nothing ever happened -----------

The genuine counsellors, be they friends and/ or relatives, are insulted, humiliated and ignored......

NETT-NETT, the sacred and beautiful FAMILY institution of a YOUNG COUPLE sees a

crack and deep fissure PERMANENTLY AS AN UNFORGETTABLE SCAR.

__________ So it is that my articles attempt to strike the balance ( delicate balance ) in

CLEARLY IDENTIFYING THE FRIEND FROM THE FOE and TO FIRST RENDER THE

FORT STRONG __________

@Rising Up Again –

If both Parties are mature and intelligent enough? –

No both parties are not mature enough. Greed, Lust and Money is ruling the World.

Since eons of time – People have fought for Money, Power and Position.

It is the upbringing of the Children and the Family atmosphere how the Children are grown up.

Whether Moral Values, Ethics, Character Formation and Good Behavior have been taught and does Parents live by and set them as examples for the Children to learn from them.

Home is the First Place of education for a baby even before they were born into this world.

A Telugu Proverb is as follows.

Noru Manchidhi Ayithey Ooru Manchidhi Antaru

Manasu Machidhi Ayithey Lokam antha Manchidhi Antaru.

Meaning

If Mouth is good then City or Town or Village is Good

If Heart is good then the Whole World is Good.

The statement "The HUNTER acts before the VICTIM does" suggests that the hunter initiates action or carries out their intentions before the victim has a chance to respond or defend themselves. This statement implies a proactive approach by the hunter, indicating that they are actively seeking out the victim and taking action before the victim can react.

However, it's important to note that the context of the statement is unclear, and it could be interpreted in various ways depending on the specific situation being referred to, more read in this aricle https://www.agmglobalvision.com/unusual-types-of-hunting . The terms "hunter" and "victim" can be applied to different scenarios, such as in the context of a predator-prey relationship in nature or in the context of human interactions .

In any case, it is crucial to promote ethical behavior, empathy, and respect for others in all circumstances. If you have any specific scenario or context in mind, please provide more details so that I can offer a more tailored response.