About divorce in indian and custody of child
ashu
(Querist) 05 September 2014
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
I Am 27 year Boy from Ahmedabad.
I married on 12/03/2011,and from that data my wife and my father in law make 2 to 3 time "jagda" with me and my family.
in last month they come and take theri daughter at their house and now they not come in my house.
before one year they also doing same thing and after six month we make solution withing family but again the same situation created by her.
now i wont divorce, what i have to do.
i have 10 month son, can i get her custody
and also tall me how much i have to pay for divorce and how it calculate by court.
my wife behaviors is unstable can i challenge her on ground that she is unsound mind.
thank you and sorry for bed English.
please give me your advice early i am very disappointed. i cant handle situation.
thanks
ABDUL RAZIQUE
(Expert) 05 September 2014
If you want divorce, it is OK you have right to file, because your wife and her father quarrel with you and your family. You may file Divorce on the ground of desertion and or unsound mind.
Your baby is too tiny so it is better for U that not file Custody case.
For proceeding u consult local lawyer.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 05 September 2014
Though you have merit in divorce case but custody of child is almost impossible. Better think of getting visitation rights only.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 05 September 2014
May cool down, after a year..BETTER WAIT & WATCH.
YOU CANNOT GET CUSTODY OF CHILD.
IF FIGHT, WILL TAKES MANY YEARS ; AND PROBABLY NO CHANCE.
Both cannot understand each other, and conflicts will continue.
Situation and understanding will improve after lkapse of time ; when peace is maintained. So just forget for at least 6 months.
Otherwise too, you can't achieve, but will pay mtn, harassment, dv, 498a etc.
So be in low profile.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 06 September 2014
Instead of availing legal recourse find out some amicable solution by roping in some common relatives, friends or counsellors and proceed as advised by expert Sh. V R Shroff, I have similar opinion.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 06 September 2014
Agree with the advise of Ld. expert VR SHROFF and Ld. expert Dr J C Vashista.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 08 September 2014
I also go with the advice of Ld.experts Shri Shroff and Dr.Vashista.
Time will heal the problems. Have patience. Do not respond to their quarrelsome nature. If you are silent for a while, they may come to you. After lapse of reasonable time say one year, you can think of what to do. Even if you want divorce, it is not so easy and it will take its own time. What is the guarantee that even after divorce you will get a better partner that too with a stinct of second marriage on your face? You have a child also. Wait for some time.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 09 September 2014
The advises rendered by experts seem to be very proper, better go for an amicable solution instead of getting into ugly matrimonial war or wait and watch the development and at the right time, you can take right action.
