Brother H Family doesnot invite brother K family 4 marriage?
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Anonymous
(Querist) 30 October 2009
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Brother H Family doesnot invite brother K family 4 marriage,Pl advise,otherwise this event will tearup family?
1 Brother H family , Is incorrect by not inviting Brother K Family for Sons wedding as Brother K did not sign apology letter as given by Brother H. Now the situation is hurtful & and it's not looking good if Brother H chose not to include Brother K family & would regret it in the long run. I know everyone says it's "Brother H day" but that is no excuse to tear up your family. I know Brother H have a bad history with Brother K but I really think down the road , Brother H will seriously regret not having him there. He has problems but he is still your brother.
2 The way I see it....that we are brothers. That's family. If you don't include family into family related events it's like you are treating him like he's not part of your family. I understand Brother H hesitation at wanting to invite him at fear of him doing or saying something out of line with earlier reason of Brother K family offended Brother H family by not attending Sons engagement
3 Now mother is considered the root of the tree, anytime she goes against any member of the family, she broke a branch so she remains silent is right in one way.and we have to decide future course of action.
3I think if Brother H family does not invite Brother K family than No! one is in entitled to be at' his son wedding and all should cut relationship with Brother H family and after invitation if Brother K family does not turn up, than we all member should cut off relationship with Brother K family. Ok, I know this answer won't be popular but someone has to say it. These are ultimate steps
5We would try to resolve family issue and make peace before the wedding, by talking to mediators, but it's likely there will be screaming matches and hurt feelings.
6 But at least Brother H should do the right thing by inviting them.& I would suggest Brother H should email invitation to Brother K family, and if they choose not to come, at least Brother H tried.otherwise he will be blamed for the lifetime
Kindly advise, otherwise these event will tear up the family
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 30 October 2009
Friend! This forum is purely meant for legal questions and for advising secret personal family matters not connected with the application of law. So better you contact any social worker of the area and take his services.
Adinath@Avinash Patil
(Expert) 31 October 2009
YOUR QUERRY IS RELATED WITH YOUR FAMILY SECRETS/MATTERS. HENCE IT IS BETTER TO APPROACH ANY LOCAL SOCIAL WORKER.
Adinath@Avinash Patil
(Expert) 31 October 2009
YOUR QUERRY IS RELATED WITH YOUR FAMILY SECRETS/MATTERS. HENCE IT IS BETTER TO APPROACH ANY LOCAL SOCIAL WORKER.
Sachin Bhatia
(Expert) 31 October 2009
Yes it is better to approach some social workes.
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 31 October 2009
your question is not legal in nature. so does not require to be answered at this forum.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 31 October 2009
Thanks, I truly agree with your advised & feel sorry for the same
