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sampoorna   14 August 2008 at 21:51

famaily court right

this is sampoorna many of you no me very well i asked many queries about my case and many of my quries are solved now, the query is since my husband upsacnading from last 3 years my maintance case is pending in famaily court of secunderabad, there recentely i given an pitition to the court that my fathear-in-law know s my husband whereabouts with a evidence of affadivitti which is given by my fathear-in-law to bar-counsil that his son is in u.s.a and working in u.s.a his son depuetd him for recalll pitition for cc no 473 which is pending in criminal court of nampally for crime 498.the famaily court judge seeing that evidence he issued notices to my father-in-law to furnish my husband address of u.s.a but there my father-in-law expressed to that court that he don't know the whereabouts of his son. the justice had declared to me that he have no right to force my fathear-in-law to furnish my husband address.even though having an evidence.

so, what i should do it,in this.please suggest me the best..

thank you,
sampoorna

sampoorna   14 August 2008 at 21:50

famaily court right

this is sampoorna many of you no me very well i asked many queries about my case and many of my quries are solved now, the query is since my husband upsacnading from last 3 years my maintance case is pending in famaily court of secunderabad, there recentely i given an pitition to the court that my fathear-in-law know s my husband whereabouts with a evidence of affadivitti which is given by my fathear-in-law to bar-counsil that his son is in u.s.a and working in u.s.a his son depuetd him for recalll pitition for cc no 473 which is pending in criminal court of nampally for crime 498.the famaily court judge seeing that evidence he issued notices to my father-in-law to furnish my husband address of u.s.a but there my father-in-law expressed to that court that he don't know the whereabouts of his son. the justice had declared to me that he have no right to force my fathear-in-law to furnish my husband address.even though having an evidence.

so, what i should do it,in this.please suggest me the best..

thank you,
sampoorna

Vijay Kumar   13 August 2008 at 23:05

status of child after divorce

If a woman with a child gets divorce and remarries, then what would be the name of child's father in school etc? The name of first husband or the second husband?

KANDE VENKATESH GUPTA   12 August 2008 at 23:30

divorce against the husband whose whereabouts are not known

My client wants to obtain divorce from her husband who left their town about 10 years ago and did not return. What is the procedure. Whether to file a divorce application simplicitor or to file a suit for declaration to the effect that my husband died as he was not heard of continuously for seven years and then to file an application for divorce. Is it not time consuming and financially difficult. Advice me.

loganathan.m   12 August 2008 at 19:22

about counciling

dear sir,
iam loganathan from trichy, i want to start family counciling in my city,
whats is the procedure to start?
by
logu

Shekhar   11 August 2008 at 21:05

Can maintenance be filed with the job by the wife?

Hi all, Can maintenance be filed by the wife who is in job? if so then would she be entitled to get ? pls. give some earlier case history where the girl/ wife was earning... and pls. if some one is having any details about the reverse " where the hasband ever get the Maintenance" pls. share.

M.A.T.Ganesan   09 August 2008 at 23:18

divorce in Hindu Marriage Act

irretrivable marriage, is it a ground under the Act?

V.Raghavan   08 August 2008 at 19:36

Can the wife is eligible for maintenance?

In a matrimonial case(13(1 i-a) H.M. Act. the husband files a dissolution petition on the ground of mental cruelty by the wife and the wife files maintenance case separate;y. In the Dissolution case the wife files an interim application for the interim alimony. In fact the husband is not a permanent job where as the wife possesses property worth of 3 crors and having regular rental income from her properties. But she says she could not maintain her and hence maintenance and interim alimony petitions. Now what are all the ways to avaoid maintenance and interim alimony? Pl suggest. In the interim alimonsy husband side (my side) counter is due by next week.

Mrs.Padmini   08 August 2008 at 15:25

maintenance and divorce.

I am a lady aged 46 years. I have been married for more than 25 years.(My wedding date is 24.01.1983) I am a Brahmin married an Indian Christian. Marriage took place in the Registrar Office, Royapettah, Chennai.From the day of marriage I have lived a suffring life with a drunkard(with lots of abuses and domestic harrassments) Due to this habit of his,, we could not continuously live in any place and had to shift our residence more than 25 times. My son and daughter have studied in 4 different schools.We got him treated in TTK De-addiction centre in 1996 but he relapsed to the habit again.As we had to change our living place many times, we could not get Ration Card, Election Card for our family. My children suffer a lot, that too now, as they do not have these ID's.Mainly I donot have any proof to show me as a citizen of India other than my school and college leaving certificates.Literally speaking, in 2000 April, I was in the streets with both my teenage children as agathi without any place to stay or anyone to help us.
Now after we suffering a lot, he is not ready to go out of our house,not ready to give divorce,continuously stays with us torchuring me(mental harrassment).He is employed now, earning nearly Rs.15,000/per month,spends lavishly for himself without giving even a penny to household.He stays freely, uses all household things and abuses all of us.
Due to his drinking, my son suffered from Wheezing for nearly 15 years, I got TB gland in 2000 and still have health problems, my daughter was affected with TB in brain 2 years back.

Now he has stopped drinking may be due to aging or health conditions. He is 52 years old now. Healthy and energitic. Surfing for second shaadi in internet.

When me and my children have suffered so much because of him,that, we have lost respect in friends and relations circle and also in the neighbourhood wherever we live in.,Y should not he pay me atleast for my medication and survival as I am fully dependent on my children for my food, shelter,clothing and medication.
I hereby request, legal help for me in the above and also to get him out of my children's house.

LEGALHELPREQUIRED   03 August 2008 at 22:01

MENATAL HARRASSMENT

I sense a foul play of Divorce trials by my husband and inlaws.

I dont want divorce as I have a son.

I am married since Mar 07, but have been facing mental harrassment since just two months after engagement in August06, to the extent that they wanted to cancel the marriage.

My husband appears to be meek, but he is cool headed and does anything pre-planned.

I am straight forward and speak my heart openly.

He is not interested to stay with me, because he did not like my appearance due to my short hair or glasses(Everything was clear at the time of seeing me for alliance), he did not like my being good at my Academics, good English and earning better than him.

Now oflate, the issues have grown big and I started finding the faults that their family members have done by insulting me at various instances.

For this they say, that I am not obedient as a daughter in law, and that I am mental and hence shout at elders etc.

They did not care about me during my pregnancy, and did not care about the child after his birth, except that they came once and saw us in hospital.

In the 3rd month when my mother asked when they would take me and my son, they said they were going to Kasi, so would see in 5th month. In the mean time I was pleading my husband to come and see us atleast now after the child is born. He denies everytime saying that he would not come if I wanted to see him, but would come only if he wanted to see the child.

For doing annaprasana, they even made me write on a Bond paper that I have insulted my inlaws and husband and hence, I was staying seperately from husband(due to some arguments previously) and that
I am willing to bring my child up at Vijayawada since I am working in Hyderabad. (One of the conditions of my husband that I have to keep the child at Vja), and that they have not taken any amount for any expenses for marriage.
Also that I am writing this with my own interest without any force from anyone.

After that they gave the plea that since I delayed in signing the bond, they cannot take me and child back in 6th month, so we have to wait till 9th month. But they conducted annaprasana on 6th Month 6th day, asking us not to stay in Vja that day, as my son cannot do an overnight stay in 6th month.

Again I started asking my husband to come sometime to see the child as he is already 6months old.
This time he talked rudely, and I said if you not very interested then why did u people make me sign the bond, Pls take life seriously, if you dont want me then you could have gone for a divorce instead of these cheap tricks.

This irritated my husband and he said that he will file for divorce.... and that I have to sign... (Till date they did not send any papers).

In the mean time the arguments with my husband irritated me to the extent that I started talking harshly and he started complaining to his father, and he wrote a letter that I am mad and should be put in mental hospital....

I fear that he is building all these proofs to go against me... Pls help

I dont want divorce... I want my husband and a happy relationship with all the family members.

I only seek the cooperation from the family and request them not to insult me for my appearance. (I am fair, sharp featured etc... to the contrast of my MIL and SIL).

Am I wrong... In expressing my anger at my inlaws for having brought up their son who doesnt show any responsibility towards his wife and son. He did not come to see me even once when I was pregnant (With diabetes). He has never been happy in front of me. He acts silence and non happiness only towards me. Where as when his relatives or friends come, he is a different person.

Even my inlaws have a very good reputation in their family and friends and in the neighbourhood. But no one can believe that they do all sorts of things to prove their son right.

They are creating proofs that I am not good by nature and I dont respect elders...

How do I defend