Divorce
Sohan
(Querist) 08 July 2011
This query is : Resolved
My age is 34 and my wife’s age is 24, I got married in 2007 things where fine……. But my wife always had doubtfully nature which I kept on ignoring
Last 4 month she started taking doubt on one of my friend who was widower, as she was in trouble I used to support her mutually
As we used to talk on phone late night she got boost to her doubting nature….. my wife is studying in mumbai from 2010
Her dirty nature went to such limit that my patience where finished and dispatch start happening…… one day she complained to police station which made me so upset that I decided to seprate from her
I always supported her……. She herself had physical relation with guys at her collage time in spite of all this I loved her and supported her, But know when she blaming me for no reason has kill all my love to her
I am financial weak because of many loan….. I have a car and a flat……
She is not ready to give divorce and my faith on her is finished……. I don’t want to comprise and take rise in my future… as now I don’t have kids, but tomorrow if I have kids it will be difficult for me to take any decision
I want guideline how to go ahead with divorce; I will be sending her notice in few days for divorce…
Can anyone guide me or give tips to get the divorce in a short period………….
emule, utorrent
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 09 July 2011
Unless you go for mutual divorce there is no short cut way.
For getting divorce you have state and prove her acts of cruelty upon you.
Dr G V Rao
(Expert) 09 July 2011
Mere suspicion of your wife on you and her past affairs will not get any Court to pass a decree of divorce in your favor. As per your admissions it appears she has more grounds for seeking divorce since you are helping a widow mutually and talking late night on the phone. So it is better you resolve things mutually otherwise your wife might make life more cruel for you as you have left lot of evidence behind than her.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 09 July 2011
The only way to divorce in a short period is a divorce by mutual consent and you do not seem to have that.
you do not seem to have any evidence against your wife for her having post marriage sexual connections with college guys.
Dr G V Rao rightly points out that your wife has more better evidence against you for her complaints.You are advised not to proceed for divorce before collecting evidence against your wife to prove allegations you have against her.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 09 July 2011
I completely agree with GV. I also add one more suggestion. After getting married, it is not only unethical morally but also legally to have telephonic relations with some lady than his own wife waiting for you.
