Divorce/separation
Shubham
(Querist) 10 November 2014
This query is : Resolved
I am Mr. Roy, Indian Hindu and got married 6 months back with an Hindu girl.
My and my family is facing huge problem since the next week of marriage.
The allegation against my wife;
1. She is a biggest liar I have ever met in my life.
2. Just after marriage week, she started complaining against my sister without any reasons. Initially I could not understand whether she can lie such an extent. But after minutely observation I am sanguine that she was lying completely.
3. Initially she praised about every one of my family except my sister and tried to convince me with her sweet talks to live separately - away from my family. And also wanted to know about my savings and details of expanse monthly basis even wanted to know about FINANCIAL contribution part of my father in the family as well but I tactfully bypassed all these very personal questions in that early stage of a newly forming relation.
4. She doesn’t want any discussion or suggestions from us. Believes she is absolutely correct always. If we ask her not to do something she becomes furious and react such a way that her kind perusal that she become my wife legally. During any argument or hot temperament always threats us about 498a and police custody.
5. Her parents always believe what she tells without minimum verification or clarification and always try to divert the whole issue towards us as if their daughter doesn’t has any fault. Only of us she is victimised and wants to stay back to her home only.
6. She never bought anything from her home to our house. Rather taking out daily usage cloths/presentations/gifts from here to her own even without our concern. And whenever come to my house after several request from me or my parents she asks me to buy all those daily usage once again.
7. Even after every quarrel between us she ask her father to wait somewhere and she goes back to her own house with her father. After reaching her own home doesn’t even bother to keep contact with us if we try contact her she responses but not with interest and gives lots of excuses to not to come back again otherwise set lots of condition to come back again most of them are living separately from my family. Living separate is not an issue but she doesn’t know any work and has no interest to do any house hold job only thing she gets interest to call her parents and let them know what is going on in per minute in her 'sasural'
8. Most irritating and annoying thing is that she also likes to inform each and every talk’s discussion and sharing between husband and wife to her parents in details.
After several request and discussion she come backs to me and stays 3-4 days and starts quarrelling with me without any reason and then goes back to her home again. Since last one month she is at her home.
We don’t have contact even last one month only one day her father called me and as usual tried to divert the issue towards me as if I am the whole responsible for this situation and again asked me to come their home to discussions.
Believe me this time I am also not getting any interest by heart to request/discussion again to bring her back to my house.
Please suggest what I should to do now.
Advocate Kappil Cchandna
(Expert) 11 November 2014
Dear,
Before one year u cannot file a divorcee, better is to stay cqlm, bcoz bringing her back is threat to ur family.
Adv kapil chandna, 9899011450
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 11 November 2014
If she want to live separate from your family, you can do so to save your marriage. There seems scope of saving the marriage. They have not taken any legal steps against you. Take help of common family friends and well wishers.
If not possible try to file mutual consent divorce after one year. Contested divorce would take years.
advocate Avdhesh chaudhary
(Expert) 15 November 2014
put petition under secion 9 of HMA. in that you will get chance counciling. if things improve well & good. otherwise by that time your one year of marriage will be over,then you may file for mutually consent divorce. Adv. Avdhesh chaudhary, 989157137
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