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Shefali Aggarwal (Querist) 13 August 2013 This query is : Resolved
my parents have spend 22 lakh out of which 18 lakh cash for buying my jewellery and hotel booking etc as they said they will make jewellery of their choice and book hotel at their home town with their choice with rest money my parents given me clothes, utensils etc. are some on my marriage last year. now my in-laws have thrown me out of house as they thought now my parents cannot give them more money for flat which they want to buy because my parents have have taken loan from relatives and friends for my marriage and even that loan is still not finished. my parents try to reconcile but completely denied and now situation is that when we put complaint and in the statement of my in-laws they said my parents have not given even a single penny at the marriage..

police saying that they will lodge the complaint but no recovery can be done as the amount we have given is in cash form..

query is that we get that amount back from court??? because some are saying that cash amount recovery is not so easy... i'm so tense that my parents who spend such a big amount and still there loan is not finished still their daughter is at home... please advice.......

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Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 13 August 2013
Yes cash amount can hardly be obtained. However the Police may unearth the ornaments or other valubales.

However once you claim for maintenance and if the amount awarded is good one then you would recover the said amount in near future.

Shefali Aggarwal (Querist) 13 August 2013
sir please aisa mat bola mere parents ka toh abhi karza bhi nhi utara.... please advice something..... yeh shaadi rishtedaari mein se hue thi isliye andha vishwas kiya humne... par sach mein mujhe apne parents ke liye bahut tension ho rahi hai... kya aise logo ki koe saja nhi.. meri zindagi toh kharab ki hi.. aur saath mein mere parents ki bhi aaj kya halat hai... sir please advice something on this matter. i'll be very thankful. please

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 14 August 2013
I regret I can not advise any better than the one I already made.

ajay sethi (Expert) 14 August 2013
the cash amount spent ahs been declared in income tax returns?

Shefali Aggarwal (Querist) 14 August 2013
yes sir, because out of this 5 lakh was that from PPF and GPF account already tax deducted and 4 lakhs come from solding mother jewellery and rest money from relatives and friends as 3 lakhs from nanak shaq and 2 lakhs loan from two Massi and 5 lakhs from bua ji and another 5 lakhs loan from fathers friends....

Shefali Aggarwal (Querist) 14 August 2013
also sir 5 lakh that i said PPF and GPF including kisan vikas patra which were bought 7 years back and after maturity they have been withdrawn before marriage for all arrangements.. sir please i'm really tense.. please advice something.. in-laws don't want me back and they are saying no amount has been given to them.. i also don't want divorce.. without any grounds can husband take divorce or not???

sir,mahila mandal counselling failed as he neither say yes nor no but saying he is not in position to say yes or no so police saying he's actually saying no but wants me to say no. do i contact national commission for women for help... please advice.

ajay sethi (Expert) 14 August 2013
you can file complaint under Dv act . you have right to stay in shared household . your husband is bound to maintain you . in addition you can claim compensation for mental torture you have undergone .

you can ask for return of your streedhan .

the jewellery of Rs 18lakhs bought for you by your parents . you must have the list of jewllery. contact a local lawyer

DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g (Expert) 14 August 2013
It is easy to make wild allegations but difficult to produce evidence.

1) You say 22 lacs cash but have proof of only five lacs PPF.

2) Far sale of gold you have to produce evidence of its existence and sale bills.

3) There will be RTI applications about all your relatives and FRIENDS who you say loaned money to your father from Income tax dept and all of them will back out.

4) There will be many other related queries which on face of your actions other side will dig out.

So be realistic and try to come to agreeable solution otherwise both sides will spend money in court battles and valuable YEARS will be lost.

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 14 August 2013
you better forget the issue and go for amicable settlement preferably in lieu of a lump sum.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 14 August 2013
Practical advise given by the Advocate defense and other experts. Try to reach at amicable solution.

Shefali Aggarwal (Querist) 14 August 2013
yes sir you are right but yeh wild allegations nhi hai true hai... we have proof and no relative will backout because they have given affidavits of that amount also from their account transactions are made with affidavits they have attached transaction photocopy also .. so yaha kuch jhooth nhi hai...

and ajay sir, to make jewellery they have taken that amount of 18 lakhs in cash as they told that they will make of their choice in view of their family status. my parents trusted and handover them as it was in rishtedaari and person i.e. vichola is my and my in-laws i.e. both side s relatives.. also that money was given to them to make jewellery but after marraige they haven't given me anything and not even shown. instead MIL said that in now days who wear gold jewellery so i ignored but who knowns that people can be so cruel...

you all saying forget the issue and go for amicable settlement preferably in lieu of a lump sum. but sir they are not ready to return to return single rupees and want divorce. even publically they are saying they are searching for new party..

now we also get to know that in their relatives have thrown many bahus out of the house...

Yeh sun kar toh mujhe yehi lagta hai ki kaun kehta hai laws are in favor of girl.. mujhe toh bilkul nhi lagta.. sach mein sacha case ka toh hamare jaisa haal hi ho raha hai.. Laws need to be amended.. No lumsum instead the person who do such cruelty should be punished only then their will be some improvement...

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 15 August 2013
Do as advised above.

Guest (Expert) 15 August 2013
If you or your parents are able to prove during trial, you can recover, otherwise not. All depends upon evidence of cash payments or documentary proof in the shape of cash receipts with your parents.

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 15 August 2013
The author refuses to understand this simple issue.

prabhakar singh (Expert) 15 August 2013
He thinks we are free for being exploited by him.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 15 August 2013
You have rightly been advised by experts.

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