Suicide attempt

Sudhir Lohar (Querist) 19 November 2013 This query is : Resolved
DEAR SIR/MADAM,
GOT MARRIED IN 1997.
TWO CHILDREN.
10 YEARS BACK MY WIFE ATTEMPTED FOR SUICIDE FOE A SILLY REASON.
ACCORDING TO HER SHE HAD ATTEMPTED ONCE IN HER COLLEGE DAYS.
NOW ALL HER FAMILY MEMBERS ARE DENYING THAT.
INSTEAD OF COUNSELLING HER THEY ARE IN DENIAL MODE.
FURTHER THEY ARE INFLUENCING HER MIND AGAINST ME AND MY FAMILY MEMBERS.
NOW SHE IS VERY MUCH FRIGHTENED AND BEHAVING VERY ERRATICALLY
KINDLY GUIDE ME

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ABDUL RAZIQUE (Expert) 19 November 2013
Dear Sudhir Lohar
First you make a general diary in you L P S for your future,
Secondly it is your duty to tackle the situation by the help of a DOCTOR not a lawyer,
Thirdly you try to create a peace environment.

Rajendra K Goyal (Expert) 20 November 2013
Continuous counseling, medical treatment is required and any legal step would destroy the family future and would lead to further complacency. Take your laws in confidence.

malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 20 November 2013
What is the benefit of rising two irrevalent points now:
1. 10 years back she attempted suicide (after marriage).
2. She has attempted previously during her college days.
Why are you rising these points now?
You have children. Only love and compassion will change her behaviour. Create an environment that she should develop attachment with the children.
3. Ignore her parents if they are spoiling the atmosphere.
4. Is she a working woman? If not ask her to find out some way to utilize the leisure time.
5. Whether your parents are living with you? If so you can take them into confidence and ask them to show love and affection in the interest of the children.
6. Do not allow your in-laws to talk over mobile in your absence. They can talk to their daughter, but not discreetly.
7. Have a talk with your in-laws and make it very clear to them that you will take care of your wife and they need not interfere frequently without any reasons. Especially tell them not to talk to her when she is alone in the best interest of their own daughter.
Finding fault is easy. Finding solutions are difficult. Try to find solutions to your problem. Problem is not related to your own life. It is related with 3 others (wife, children and parents).