Reunion
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Anonymous
(Querist) 12 July 2015
This query is : Resolved
Sir/ma'am,
I'm a BE graduate. Ours was a love com arranged marriage. Married in 2009. My husband is adopted from his present moms sister. He is very caring and loving husband until his parents involvement. His parents didn't want me to work and earn. They are behind my dads properties. I was told rather demanded to get my share of the property registered on my name on very third day after my marriage by his mother,I was literally shocked to here this from her and Never expected to hear something like that. Slowly it continued with the jewellery that my parents gave me with love stating that the jewelleries are in small size(I don't like heavy jewellery and bought smells ones)and tortured me and my parents mentally directly and from my husband as well. They even made my husband throw all the jewellery on my parents face. She even got me checked with doctor for not conceiving in 10days after my marriage once and in third month once,she even insisted my mom to get me checked one,totally thrice.
In 2011 when I was 9 months pregnant my husband dropped me at my parents home for delivery purpose. Till that day my husband never raised any topic on what my parents are gonna give to baby to be born. But a week after that they forced my husband to ask me for gold hip chain even before knowing the baby is going to be is a boy or girl(he told that is going to be prestige issue for his parents). His mom told me that she is not able to lift her head before her relatives coz my parents didn't present me any gold jewellay on my baby shower.FIL and MIL used to torture me by comparing with others DIL's on what they got from their parents house. I took care of them well when MIL and FIL under went cataract and bypass sugary respectively.
When ever we had a fight I used to tell his parents thinking that they will solve the issue but every time they told me that my husband will find another girl or he will marry another girl. Once Post delivery when he abused me physically in their assistance,I left to my parents home with my 5months old baby for 25days,but I returned back when I heard they are trying to spoil my husbands mind for divorce,but I was thrown out of their house by taking my baby from my hand and was a big panchayat held where they promised that will not repeat this.
Another time when i got my menses and so told them to get food from outside(as I'll not be able to do anything during that time) and went to take rest seeing my husbands smiling face...1 hr after that my husband came banging the door telling that who will do the rest of the work if I sleep like that and being married for 5 years he knew my situation very well and I asked the same and argument broke and he abused me verbally and physically where his parents didn't stop him from doing so,started reminding him things happened earlier and raised his ego. In that incident my orbit bone got fractured where I couldn't expose my eye to heat and light and doctors told me surgery is a must which was a major one. Even after that I stayed with him for 24 days pre surgery,in a hope that he will change some day and realise the fact. His parents didn't even call me and enquired on how I was feeling.But my weakness(love towards him)made them think that I can't do anything even if I die in their hands.i even requested him to come for Counseling but his dad decided on his behalf and shouted at me telling that my husband will not go with me for Counseling and I can leave the house,they even told that they will not get the surgery done,so told my parents who got my surgery done and took me home with them. Filed MLC from hospital and FIR with ipc sections 498a and DV(I even have voice recording of his mom asking my dad for property on her sons name)If I leave him for some time they will file for divorce,if I stay with him they will torture me more from him(their influence is too much between us,otherwise he is the best dad and beast husband),finding no other option filed FIR. We are not expecting any maintenance or compensation from him. Me and my 4yr old son want to live with him with the best counseling and reunite with him please suggest.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 12 July 2015
Thank you so much for the reply sir. My husband is very caring and loving. He is adopted child.his parents always created problems between us they can't tolerate seeing us happy. My husband abused me physically no of times one their words influence,finally situation worsen and went till surgery.if I live with him,his parents torture me more thinking that I'm not doing anything after all these and if I leave to my parents house they will spoil his mind for divorce(as I heard this happening earlier).tried to take him for counseling but his dad didn't allow him. Finding no other option filed FIR u/s 498a(in my long message explained why I was forced to take legal step) and dv.chargesheet not yet prepared and we are not expecting any money from him in any from expect to reunite with him with a better counseling.plese help me.
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(Expert) 12 July 2015
Anonymous Query
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 13 July 2015
We do not entertain the query of any "anonymous" author, which you have already read in the terms and conditions for posting query on this platform.
No reply for anonymous and repeated query. In another query you have mentioned "Victim" as author, however, in the subject matter you had mentioned "Priyanka" accordingly I have given my opinion and advise.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate 
(Expert) 14 July 2015
you appear under a misconception that your husband is gentleman and his mind is yet to be spoiled while you yourself state that he has thrown jewellery on face of your parents, abused you severally.
for going to 498a be sure that torture is clearly based on dowry demand.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 14 July 2015
Yes sir it's purely a dowry harassment case,I even have voice recording of his mother asking for property on my husband's name with my dad. We are a happy couple until his parents spoil his mind on these issues. Why Im sure is coz many times what I hear from my husband is previous day or someother day will be heard from his parents,when they don't get any response from me they will use him as weapon against me. my husband listening to everything they say will bring a huge fight between us. If it's only any argument between me and him it will be sorted in hrs time but if they involve it will lead him to hurt me physically.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 14 July 2015
I'm PRIYANKA,When we both are alone I swear he never ever spoke to me on those issues...but he brought so many comparisons with others in his parents influence...I told him n no of things not to involve his parents or my parents or anyone in our small fights...I Never wanted 3rd persons involvement between our small fights...even if I try to contact him now,his parents will not let him talk to me...eg:after my surgery when someone asked my husband if he called me and enquired on how my situation is,his response Was he was told by his parents not to call me and talk to me.please help me what step I can take through court to save my marriage..
Guest
(Expert) 14 July 2015
Please read my opinion at your another post at:
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Priyanka-547351.asp
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 16 July 2015
You have already posted the same query under the name of Priyanka and were properly advised by many experts of this portal, you may please visit that thread for knowing more replies and opinions.
