Wife
Mahendra Katariya
(Querist) 23 November 2016
This query is : Resolved
Dear sir,
I got married in may 16 now my wife is pregnent staying at her moms place she is now staying to stay alone with her, as i stay with my mom who is having paralysis prblm, my wife n their parents saying me if you dont listen to us we will charge a dowry case against you. Also 2 days ago i just checked her kundali i just found she is manglik which she didnt told before our marriage. Pl help me and let me know.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 24 November 2016
"my wife n their parents saying me if you dont listen to us we will charge a dowry case against you"
vague
wht do they want you to listen.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 24 November 2016
"Also 2 days ago i just checked her kundali i just found she is manglik which she didnt told before our marriage."
irrelevant.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 24 November 2016
Try to convince your wife to cooperate.
During pregnancy, she need care, your mother having paralyses problem may not attend her properly. win her faith.
Record their threats.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 24 November 2016
Being a Manglik is no hurdle legal or otherwise is just baseless belief.
For psychological satisfaction, can get some PUJA as per your custom.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 24 November 2016
As per your post, you have been advised adequately by experts.
Take care of your ailing mother and pregnant wife.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 25 November 2016
In spite of finding faults on flimsy / baseless/ hearsay grounds better accept the fact that she is your wife and is pregnant now. Save marriage rather to find grounds for breaking it.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 26 November 2016
If your wife is unable to take care of your paralyzed mother, yourself with other family members, even after discussing the matter with her (your wife) and she is adamant to stay with her mother, let her do as she desire without any expectations.
Contest the case(s) when initiated/slapped.
Discuss with a local lawyer for proper advise and guidance.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 26 November 2016
Agree with the expert Dr J C Vashista.
Further add that do not take any initiation to break the marriage from your side.
Guest
(Expert) 26 November 2016
Mr. Mahendra Katariya,
Your query is surprising, as you said, "Pl help me and let me know," without stating what exact help you want from the experts!
Even otherwise, Manglik Dosha and legal problem are two different things. I wonder, if you have seen her kundli just now instead of before entering in to your marriage alliance!
So, make clear what sort of help you expect from the experts, as marital life of merely 6 months old cannot be the conclusive to understand or even guess, what exactly your wife desires as against your wishes?
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 26 November 2016
You may respond to the point raised by Mr. Sudhir Kumar.
What do they want you to listen!
Say; separate from your ailing mother?
If yes; record and build some evidence.
If these are just altercations on petty matters and you should resolve like a responsible husband and son.
Try to save your marriage.
Agreed with Dr.J.C.Vashista and Mr. Rajendra K Goyal.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 26 November 2016
Expert Kumar Doab:
Thanks for agreeing.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 26 November 2016
Expert Mr. Rajendra K Goyal,
You are welcome.
Advocate/CS Sanjeev Kataria
(Expert) 24 November 2016
