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M Chaturvedi (Querist) 09 October 2013 This query is : Resolved
Dear Experts:

Thanks for your suggestions & advices on my query of "Complaint" - Against PP.

It is shameful that our system has become such that even when a person is right he is at the receiving end of corruption. The people who are corrupted from within their minds are free to do anything.

Anyways, as suggested by our few learned experts - that It would be of no use to waste time in complaining about the PP & instead finish the matter by fulfilling his demands. His demand is 10L. Should we fulfill it? How much will he come down from 10L? Any idea?

But, what about the party (my brother's ex-wife & in-laws). They are hungry too. Even after the matter is already settled in Divorce Court a year ago, DV Act withdrawn by them a year ago, even we had withdrawn a case of cheating filed against them a year a ago. The Ex-Wife have even signed in the consent Terms of Divorce wherein it is stated that there is "NO EXCHANGE PENDING BETWEEN THE PARTIES".

I do understand that 498 A is non-compoundable & it has to be pursued as if the case is still going on and we (both the parties) have to portray a picture in front of honorable judge that the case is hopeless wherein it couldn't be proved where does the streedhan lies or dowry claim stands - thereby Not harming the ex-wife as well as us in the court and somehow the case gets cleared for both the parties.

But, here the other party (ex-wife & her parents) are hungry for money - if what the PP did in last hearing is to be believed.

For PP, Whatever rude behaviour he is doing with us, we might take it in our stride. what about the opposite party's hunger?

While settling for Divorce, we didn't need to pay a single penny to them. Yes, ITS TRUE - Not a Single Penny... And they have signed on the Divorce papers, MOU, Consent Terms. And Divorce Granted....

But, now since they are the complainants in 498A and we have nothing left to do against them. They are taking the advantage (may be taking a chance) by pursuing the 498A case.

EVEN THOUGH WE ARE RIGHT............
Should we still meet their unreasonable Demands ? Should we still succumb in front of them ? Should we still show them that anyone can come & bully us ?

One of our respected experts had replied in response to my previous query that -"How do I do my business?" He had questioned me about the fairness in my business taxes, etc... etc... But, here everything cannot be looked from business angle. The opposite party, to extort money from us can do anything & we keep on thinking & doing business way.

A person abuses you 1st time - You let go of it. Again, he abuses you - You think that such things doesn't suit us so you don't fight against it & you let go of it. Again he abuses you - Again you think positive & let go of it. How many times will you let go of it ? That person is abusing you again & again because he has misunderstood your patience or your goodness as your weakness.

The above has & is happening with us. We have on several occasions (even though we were right & reasonable), succumbed to their unreasonability. We have let gone of several abuses they have given on us.

Their Demand is 10L. Our lawyer had spoken to their lawyer & their lawyer conveyed this amount to our lawyer.

Now, their demand & the PP's demand is one & the same or separate is still under wraps. Our lawyer is trying to find out.

Most Importantly, here I would like to ask our experts - The Chargesheet is filed in Nov, 2011. Can we go for Quashing in HC ?

Since my brother is Divorced - Can he get married even though the case of 498A is still going on ?

Requesting the learned experts to suggest & advice on law basis not on business basis - I've been into business since 16 Years, my Father is in business since 36 Years & my brother is in business since 12 Years. And its our business acumen that we didn't pay a single penny to them and got my brother Divorced.

Thanks & Regards

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R.K Nanda (Expert) 09 October 2013
query too long to reply.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 10 October 2013
You paid nothing and got divorced because you are businessmen and same thing you want everywhere even under threatening. Whenever one has to demand anything free of cost, he should be lenient and should not demand as a matter of right which seems in your long long query regarding your desire to attend your query.

Had you been pessimistic, I was of the opinion to provide you best practical solution but when in the last lines of your query, you gave your actual mind, I deem it defamatory to attend your query.

You might be in business but we are making charity for every querist including you. If you learn only the language of business, do contact any lawyer of your liking and settle business terms with him.

M Chaturvedi (Querist) 10 October 2013
Respected Experts,

Thanks Shri R K Nanda ji & Shri Raj Kumar Makkad ji. I value your time & appreciate your efforts to reply to my query.

Shri Raj Kumar Makkad ji, I apologize if the last line of my query was rude. But, Sir, if you read the replies of my previous query. Someone had questioned me - "What kind of businessman you are?", "How do you do your business?", The respected expert had questioned the integrity of my business. Why Makkad ji ? Practical solutions are most welcome, but, Sir, Why get personal ?
If a queriest writes or asks something - It is Defamatory. And when an Expert says / writes anything that becomes practical.
My Lawyer, who is fighting our case since 3 years - For mere Rs.3,000/-, He stepped back on attending our case just 10 minutes before our case (27.09.2013) was called out.
What were Rs.3,000/- for ? In the hearing(29.07.2013) prior to the recent hearing (27.09.2013), we reached just around 5 minutes late & our lawyer said that because we were not present in court, the Hon. Judge issued warrant against us & he (our lawyer) had to make the warrant get cancelled - So Rs.3,000/-(he clearly said it was not his fees but to bribe for cancelling warrant). It was the first time in our entire case history we were late. Sir, Really does the Hon. Judge, who is hearing our case for the first time (The Hon. Judge is New / Transferred at Court Room where our case belongs) will issue warrant just because we are late ? Even after we missed out on the hearing, we tried to find out on our own whether the warrants were really issued and It was "NO".
Why do Lawyers have such Mindsets ? Is this All the Lawyers' Actual Mind ? Do the Lawyers have got the Wholesale Rights to Insult, Defame, Harrass their Clients at the last minute of hearing coming up ?

Here I request & pray to all the respected experts to not take my above reply on personal level. All this is coming out from our bad Experiences of the Opposite Party, PP, Our Lawyer.

If this was a Woman's (Wife's) Case - There would have been all the Sections & Sub-Sections ready for her by our respected Experts & Only a man has to be practical.

Dear Experts, I'm genuinely asking - Why is there No Powerful Support for man? Why there is NO Encouragement for man? Why such Laws, Sir?

If my query hurts anybody or makes anybody feel angry - I Apologize.

Thanks & Regards

R.K Nanda (Expert) 10 October 2013
IT IS OK.IT IS FREE SITE.KEEP IN TIME.

Sudhir Kumar, Advocate (Expert) 10 October 2013
very long narrative.

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