Mother in law
Sharmila.W
(Querist) 19 September 2017
This query is : Resolved
My in laws torture was there for me from many years. Two years back my father in law expired. Now my situation has become more worse. My mother in law never allows husbnd and wife to live in peace. Me and my husbnd have not spoken from last ywar August. V have two daugters. Elder in 9th abd younger in 5th. My husbnd never even bothers about me but he wants my salary. I feel lonely and my mother in law tries to keep telling my husbnd wrong things about me. Its like a mental torture to me. Is there any law for me to file a complaint on this issue?
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 19 September 2017
" V have two daugters. Elder in 9th abd younger in 5th. My husbnd never even bothers about me but he wants my salary."
You have so far done nothing to make them stand in Police Station and will also do nothing even now.
There is no point in advising such persons.
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Laws are there, but your description is of generic type with no hint about the nature of any evidence in your possession. You have also not mentioned, what you have done so far to avoid the so called torture.
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
To supplement the observation of Mr. Jigyasu, if you really have some evidence in your possession, there are two options for you, as against your name, leaving behind any sharam, lodge a report with the police for domestic violence, or, if not, you can continue to compromise with your position.
But, mind it, if you prefer to make a police case, your married life, as well as your children's furture, can get shattered more than the present state of affairs.
Taking cue from my observation, you may better discuss the issues in detail with your relatives and friends to help you in a humble manner, or if want to take legal route, discuss in detail with some local lawyer and be prepared for fighting the case.
Guest
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Quite an ethical and realistic advice by Mr. Dhingra
P. Venu
(Expert) 19 September 2017
The facts posted are posted are too generic. There should certainly specific actionable events. Take up the matter with relatives and friends and, as well with NGOs or you may seek professional help.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 19 September 2017
If your husband and mother in law torture you you can lodge police complaint against them.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
You are working and drawing salary.
Try to save from it for your future.
Your aged parents, relatives can support till they can.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Ask your husband that has not spoken with you since last August, last year to share and contribute to household expense, in person and/or thru common relatives, elders of the family, shrude and smart mediators that can remain and gentle and break the ice with your spouse and help to achieve dialogue and understanding.
Your MIL may also change in times to come.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Married life has its own hazards.
One of the spouse or relatives in one of the spouse family can be good for nothing as pointed by you.
If you are sure that all efforts have yielded NO fruitful result and it is worthless to stay in such family and marriage, then try to read and understand about complaints that can be lodged, the irrefutable evidences that are required to succeed, and maintenance that can be claimed for self (even if you are working) and children, alimony and time and costs that are involved in it.
And circumstances and evidences, that can help the spouse to defeat your claims.
Thereafter you can take a call and qualified decision on the matter.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
In the meantime try to save the marriage and change situation, in your favor…………….and also build some irrefutable evidences.
In its owns sense Mr. Sudhir Kumar is right.
Once you have the irrefutable evidence the police action and your lawyer’s support may help to change the spouse, family and their conduct and/or if nothing works and if you decided to liberate legally from the burden of unsuccessful marriage, you can.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 19 September 2017
Same Query;
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/salary-656036.asp
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 20 September 2017
There is no point in repeating same query.
You are an educated lady therefore you are expected to find way out to the generic problem after stopping salary to your husband, which is other-way-round, wherein he is liable to maintain you and your daughters.
Guest
(Expert) 20 September 2017
When Mr. Kumar Doab admits that as per Mr. Sudhir Kumar, there was no point in advising such person, there was no relevance for him to make 4 vague posts consecutively against a single query.
Apparently, it was his race towards reaching to the top of the hall of fame even through vague & useless posts.
Guest
(Expert) 20 September 2017
People can't be misled merely by vague and misleading posts, even if he rides at the top of the hall of fame.
