for maintainence
Madhavi
(Querist) 20 April 2009
This query is : Resolved
Last week i had put a query regarding physical and mental torture done by my husband .
wherein Uma madam had given me good suggestion for compromise .I am thankful to her .
our case is with Human rights organization where the concerned person is helping us out .
He had given me suggestion that now we will see that he will not in future will give you physical as well as mental torture .And about the flat you will have to stay with him in a rented flat only ,you cannot demand him for a own flat .
so i am ready for this compromise and also they gave me option to rent a flat at my place of choice .
so now since i stay at my parents place i have selected same area .And also since my baby is small and my parents will be staying near my place can look after my baby in immergency conditions .
Here my husband agreed to stay together with me at the place selected .
But very next he told that he will be drafting the letter in behalf of my husband to my organization HR and BOSS for the transfer of Job from HO to factory ,wherein he will be convenient .
i am already travelling 2 hrs for my office ,and since now he will also have to travel ,so he creating a mess and giving me warning of taking some steps wherein i will be in problem .
pls suggest how to compromise with such person who only thinks of himself and not of wife or the child .
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 21 April 2009
Dnt feel bad, why u r living with such husband who is not taking care of u and the baby. If u r educated lady then try to stand on ur foot, forget him, if he has any property then claim ur and ur baby's share, but u cannot seek partition in ur husband's family independently, so u will have to file a case thru., ur baby. Forget the compromise when he is creating problmes what is the need to live with him. U have to look after ur baby's future. Ur husband is making a drama of compromise his intention is clear just he wants to harrash u. Unnecessary ur in putting ur self in trouble. Be confident, positive and lead the life independently for ur baby's sake.My advise may hurt u. But dont feel bad about my advise, it is my sincere advise u for ur baby's sake, who does not anything in the life still.
Jaswant Singh
(Expert) 21 April 2009
I am not aware whether you have taken recourse unde Domestice Violence Act for the reliefs you are seeking. If not, you must file a petition for you grivenances
RAKHI BUDHIRAJA ADVOCATE
(Expert) 24 April 2009
U must file a complaint under Domestic Violence Act & a petition for maintenance for ur baby as soon as possible. For further details u can contact me at:-09871158578/09711364956
SANJAY DIXIT
(Expert) 26 May 2009
If you have lost faith on your husband due to his acts and behaviour, you should think about the other option ie seperation.
