intercaste marriage
govindchandana
(Querist) 09 April 2017
This query is : Resolved
sir/madam,
This is Govind. I am 21 years old.
I am in love with a girl(18). she also loving me. we are in love since 2 years.
we want to marry after I am settled in life. but our parents were not accepting. because of caste problem...
I am BC( vanjari) and she is SC (mala)
she can't marry any one other than me..
because she want to be with me forever
and I also never marry any one other than her. I can't imagine any one as my wife other than her.
and we don't like to marry without parents.
because also we want to be with our parents.
please give me any suggestions that,
how can convince our parents.
we have lot of time to marry .but my mind won't workout without talking with her for a day.
I am the topper of my department
because of her motivation only.
we are talking daily secretly.(phn calls)
my frnds and her frnds all are says that
(jindagi me ek acha partner rahetho, hamare jaisa rahna chaahiye)
so I can't miss her in my life.
please give me any suggestions.that how many ways to convince our parents.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 09 April 2017
please come out of paradox
you want to marry (not ready for any other choice)
parents of both of you do not accept the marriage (not ready for any other choice)
you want marriage with parents only.
You can convince your parents by tow ways
ONE WAY
persuasion
OTHER WAY
Let that girl give FIR against your parents under Untouchability Act stating that she is being rejected for no other cause than cast as she belongs to SC cast. Your parents will agree or will go to jail.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 09 April 2017
We have seen such marriages in movies in cinema (where wish of parents is totally disregarded and script is designed to ridicule them).
but you never knew that
a. in movies the actors speak scripted dialogue after rehearsal.
b. if action/dialogue is not ideal then there is retake.
c. for doing this they are paid in lakhs (and even carores)for shooting for few hours..
d. even if they have to survive as a couple without society they have to do so only upto shooting hours. So they can live this short period even without income.
e. after shooting actors go home and live their real life.
f. they stand to lose nothing if someone wants to imbibe such artificial reel life and spoil his own real life. they had been doing so from the earliest hindi talkie "Achhoot Kanya"
govindchandana
(Querist) 10 April 2017
thank you sir..
for your honourable suggestion..!!
but she won't fir against my parents..
because..
she respects my parents..
and I respects her parents.!
could you please..give me any other suggestions if have !
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 11 April 2017
Well advised, agree with expert Sudhir Kumar.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 11 April 2017
If she respects your parents then let her regard their sentiments also.
I repeat. There are two ways
ONE WAY
persuasion
OTHER WAY
Let that girl give FIR against your parents under Untouchability Act stating that she is being rejected for no other cause than cast as she belongs to SC cast. Your parents will agree or will go to jail.
