marriage disputes
Avinash
(Querist) 11 February 2011
This query is : Resolved
Good Morning Sir,
Myself Avinash Jain, I got married in May 2009 and due to family problems (kitchen problems) now I had to leave the home 5 months before and staying in the same city. I am an NRE working on Ship so presently my wife is staying there but still the problems not solved.She is not following anything like she goes to her home without telling me as she can tell/ask me anytime,I am available on mobile and e-net. She is doing job as per her wish and due to problem for walking she blamming me again and again while I sent her money 4 months bfore and she didn't buy vehical bcoz colour was not available.She is blaming and always bringing my mother in our talks as a bad women while we are living apart and not interference from my mother. She mostly goes to her sister's home instead of going her home.She is repeatedly asking and blaming me for money as I am giving her as much as I can transfer and its aroung 13000rs/month which I think is sufficient.We taken nothing from her family even We never asked about her salary also except whatever they given in marriage like Bed,Almirah,Washing Machine,Dressing Table and Sofa Set that we never asked about,these things are still at my parents home bcoz we didn't bring.
I bought her gold jewellary and anything she likes bfore marriage and after marriage.
She always compare me with her friend's husbands or anybody.Even she force me to take money from my parents for home which I don't want as they already invested so much in our studies.She ask me about my father's income also which she should not bother about.
Now I want to ask whether she can file any case against my parents and me?
Presently I am out of India so please reply on mail ID only.
I mentioned about my city only bcoz I want to know whether I am wrong bcoz I think I am fulfilling my duties as much as I can.
Please give me suggestion and help me out.
Thanking you.
indrajit mukhopadhyay
(Expert) 13 February 2011
you better file a case u/s 13 of H.M Act for divorce,because what I can understand from your problem is that there is a complete breakdown of marriage. This is no more a matrimonial relationship.Besides if you file a case u/s 13, legally it will be your safe guard to avoid any legal hazards done by your wife.
