Obtaining restraining order in different state
Neeraj
(Querist) 21 May 2013
This query is : Resolved
My native place is varanasi. I am a working women. I stay out of Uttar Pradesh as per my job location. I have done love marriage and got it registered under varanasi court. My husband's native place is also Varanasi. I have a fear that my brothers are planning to do something against my marriage. Now, since me and my husband are staying out of U.P. and working. Where can we apply for restraining orders immediately. What is the procedure for this.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 May 2013
if you have been married legally dont be scared . you have also regd your marriage . you dont need any restraining orders
Neeraj
(Querist) 21 May 2013
I have married and have registered it also. But since I was staying away from my home (at job place) before marriage also, this relation is not open in my parents society and they feel that before this news breaks they can get my whereabouts and make things undone. So, they are trying in this sense. My brothers had even given call to HR of my organisation. I feel sometimes that my husband's cell no. is also getting traced. Because whenever he makes it switch on. We start getting call from home.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 22 May 2013
If your marriage is registered, you need not to worry. Your relationship is intact.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 22 May 2013
your husband can change his cell no
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 22 May 2013
You issue notices to your brother & other relatives, informing them abt your marriage, and not to disturb.Restraining to interfere come near your person or property, no violence etc. Give one copy to Varanasi PS,
Hemang
(Expert) 23 May 2013
My Learned brother Shri VR Shroff is perfectly right in rendering advise. When two adults decide to marry, and factually married to each other and the marriage got registered, nothing can be done by the third party.
Instead of apprehending and concealing the reality, it is better that a soft communication may be served upon the parents and your brothers to bless you and divulge the factor of marriage.
You have a right to live in a free society and you can cast your future as may be desired by you. If any person threatens, or interferes in your personal or matrimonial life, you can well report the incident before the police station or lodge a complaint. (However, I would advise you not to file such complaint against the parents, or your brothers, because ultimately, they are your family members.)
Bubble will burst after sometime. It is a question of sentimental value with your family members, who might have taken care in getting you grown.
ashutosh mishra
(Expert) 23 May 2013
Traditional practices of society in this regard still dominates law, that is why those who find them in love marry the manner you did.However it is not a sin.You have already registered your marriage.The need now is to convince your parents.Slowly life shall get easy. Everyone shall get normal.
Neeraj
(Querist) 23 May 2013
Thanks everyone for support and guidance. I am hopefully giving some time to this matter. Probably its proven that time heals all injuries. Till then I decided to keep less communication with my family which will divert there efforts to focus on their own life matters rather than creating any unwanted issue for me.Also, I shall use this time in making myself stronger and preparing my future better, which may also help my parents in forgiving me for all this.
