Want divorce but how
sandeep
(Querist) 06 June 2014
This query is : Resolved
"My name is sandeep dhuria i live in mumbai my date of birth is 19/08/1986 .I married a girl name gauri kashyap from kanpur date of birth is 1990.
after marry when my wife come to my house i made a biggest mistake of my life my wife told that i want to tell you something than she said two days before marry i went to a birthday party their two boys raped me i didnt tell u as i was scared of marriage break up.hearing this i slaped my wife two slaps and said u destroy my life get lost from life.after few minutes we were geting personnel my wife said ur pennis is smaller than dog hearing this i felt bad i said i thing u come from kamathipura and u talk like a randi girl.my wife went to other room and started to cry hearing her my
parnts went to her she said i slapped her my family then beat me atleast 12 punches on my face and abuse me.later i realised i should have not slap her i went and said sorry to her and did situp also.morning we did satynarayan pooja.evening when party was there her father come and started to abuse me in middle of party u ktte.kamina.olloo ka patthe jootha sae maroo namard mental syco etc.
in few minutes all guest disappear my family cry ok we have taught him lesson he will not do like this again.but he abused me whole night i even laid on his feet.and her daughter feet but of no use
he abuse me more lodly and badly.morning he again started to abuse me i will broke ur bone teeth allvip of kanpur are in my pocket i willdo police complaint etc.then they calledmy sister ranjana
dhuria married and stay in bhayander they called my father and me and again started to abuse me in frontof everyone of my sister family he said i will do remmary of my daughter and put your son
behind bars.next morning they went to kanpur through kurla terminos i went help them to cathc train told wife its ok thing will get ok i love you it was our bad day but good day will also start
i also gave my wife som 4000 rs in cash to spend."
"After they went kanpur two day later they call for settlement i was scared to go but i went at the night thay told tommoroy mornig we willdo jung with you mom,dad and i got scared there were many
members in theri family early morning her dadi come to terrace and said u called my child randi ur mother is randi and your father have buyed a flat from her,you hit my child in closed room i will
hit you in public latter they called me in hall surrounded me and started to abuse me again and said we want divorce but we will not let you go we will kill you , we will through acid on ur face
etc.then they said ok he has to stay atleast three month in our house and we will see his behaviour if we like we will send him and my daughter to mumbai again they forcefully stop me in kanpur my
father went tomumbai next day they tochered me non stop for three months mentally and emotionally .now its almost above two year they are menatally torching me for no reason small thing my wife
fight with nonstop 2 years insult my mom dad me sister everyone anytime anywhere doesnt respect any one mentally tocher me i try to do sucide six time .but then also my wife abuse me her family
turn a blind eye and listen to her daughter only and not anyone of us give me dhamki of killling me from truck removing my eyes etc i am were tiere i want divorce what to do i dont want to give
property to such people plz help.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 06 June 2014
1. Getting rape was not fault of your wife. You could have managed the situation more compassionately. If she had bad intention then she could have kept this secret hidden from from you for ever.
2. So I would suggest you to peacefully settle this dispute and give this marriage a try.
3. If it does not work then you can file suit for divorce on the ground of cruelty.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 06 June 2014
First of all fled from Kanpur and reach to Mumbai. I am afraid to imagine, how your parents tolerated your abduction in Kanpur and didn't report the matter to local police and how you tolerated the alleged torture since 2 years without any rebut?
Anyway, such marriage cannot run and thus divorce is the only solution. File it at Mumbai.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 06 June 2014
settle the matter amicably ..
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 07 June 2014
I do endorse experts advice. Try to Come out from the problem cleverly and amicably with the help of lawyer
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 07 June 2014
Agree with the advise of expert raj kumar makkad ji.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 07 June 2014
file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty .
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 10 June 2014
I agree with the experts who voiced with the opinion for divorce. Yes, this is a deserving and fit case for divorce. For one mistake of slapping her on the first night, he suffered and still suffering for more than two years. It is really very cruel. In my opinion too, he has to flee Kanpur for Mumbai, file a divorce case from Mumbai itself to get rid of her permanently. She has scant respect towards her marriage and her husband, she doesn't thinks or deserves to be as his wife anymore especially in the event of she being a spectator to the tortures meted by all her relatives/people to the innocent author (provided author's version is to be taken for granted) all along till date.
G. ARAVINTHAN
(Expert) 27 June 2014
Application to be filed seeking for divorce on the ground of cruelty, by narrating all such incidents
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 27 June 2014
Cruelty is the only ground left for your petition.
