Want my family back
Lone Rider
(Querist) 03 January 2014
This query is : Resolved
fed up with my in-laws. want my wife and child back with me and teach a lesson to her brothers. any suggestion.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 04 January 2014
You can issue a legal noticeasking her to return to the matrimonial home failing which you will initiate legal proceedings, she may respond to this.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 04 January 2014
If your wife refuses to come back then no law can help you do so.
Ask and convince your wife to come back. If she does so then think of teaching any lesson to others.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 04 January 2014
First develop a rapport with your wife and convince her to start her independent life with you. Let you can think of teaching lessons. What are the reasons for the state of affairs?" What is your role in it? Introspect. It is not one day problem. You should be careful in dealing the issue. Rope in the elders from both sides if there are no common friends.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 04 January 2014
Have the help of relatives and common well wishers. Convince your wife to return and try to enjoy peaceful life.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 04 January 2014
1. Talk to her directly. There is no way you can force her to come and stay with you unless she is also willing
2. Don't file RCR, it would initiate counter actions from there side. The below article might help you in understanding the futility of RCR
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Why-not-to-file-restitution-of-conjugal-rights-43385.asp#.UsfXRdIW1mA
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Lone Rider
(Querist) 04 January 2014
1. wife is with her parents and brothers.
2. i tried from my side to convince her bring back, but her brother started shouting and threatened to kill me also. she did not came because of all this.
3. i involved my parents but they behaved in bad way with them. she again did not came.
4. now she wants to come but asking to convince her parents which is not possible.
5. i can not fight a case with them as they are rich.
6. they had threatened to file a case on me also for domestic abuse earlier.
One way out is to make them handicapped, the money flow will stop and she is forced to come back.
Any suggestion and help is welcome.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 04 January 2014
I could not find suggestion as you are telling every door closed for you which should not be the reality.
Guest
(Expert) 04 January 2014
I would prefer to suggest you some totally different approach, your total silence on the issue for 3-4 months is likely to help you to some extent. Just watch for their reaction on your silence.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 04 January 2014
I definately agree with Mr. Dhoongra. Silence may help your cause.
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T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 04 January 2014
Yes, I too agree with Mr. Dingra's views to maintain dead silence for another atleast six months period so that the time will answer to the aggravated problems.
Lone Rider
(Querist) 04 January 2014
thank you experts for your answers. i am going to keep a silence.
also in case of divorce, i do not want to part my property. i have a house and a land on my name which i bought before marriage. on house there is a loan with hdfc bank. any suggestion to save this?
i have not taken a single penny or any gift or any dowry from my in-laws.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 05 January 2014
On divorce you may will have to part with money if not property.
Your wish is of little consideration here.
Lone Rider
(Querist) 05 January 2014
can i save land and house by transferring it to my brother by a gift deed?
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 January 2014
you can transfer property to your brother by gift deed . but is there any guarantee that your brother will re transfer property to you on divorce been granted .
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 05 January 2014
YOU MAY SAVE THAT FROM YOUR WIFE ONLY BUT THEN NOT YOU BUT YOUR BROTHER WOULD BE OWNER
OF THAT PROPERTY.
Lone Rider
(Querist) 05 January 2014
thank you experts, i will be more than happy to gift property to my father or brother.. :).
