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Arjun M Nair   17 March 2022

A girl and her cousin is blackmailing me

I had a relationship with a girl who works on the same floor my office is.
She approached me first and we planned for a trip as she suggested.
I'm already married when I fall into this relationship.
We got into physical during the trip.
She told me that she had s*x with people before also. And she told me that she is a horny person having this feeling even when she is at the office. But after that trip, she stopped talking to me in that way and I too stopped knowing that she is not interested. Once she told me that she had a relationship with 4-5 people and had sent nude photos to all of them. I never asked or she never sent such photos to me

Yesterday, her cousin called me and said that I took her to some places and abused her. But we did it with mutual consent. I deleted almost all of her chats from WhatsApp long back. But I've both of our photos where kept my hands on her shoulder. Will that help to prove my innocence?
Her cousin says that he is going to file a complaint against me.

What should I do now?


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 11 Replies

Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer)     17 March 2022

Her cousin can have no case against you. But the girl can embarrass you and make you uncomfortable. Does your wife know about the trip you made with the girl? Relationships with women always come at a cost. They are never free.

Arjun M Nair   17 March 2022

But he says that they went to a psychiatrist and she is admitted in hospital.
She isn't coming to work now a days.
My wife doesn't know about this.

Shashi Dhara   17 March 2022

Deny it it was done with mutual consent and no fraud and also keep the record of her having relationship with multiple persons  if she herass or complain.

Dr J C Vashista (Advocate)     18 March 2022

It's a blackmailing tactics, no harm can be done to you except to harash and humiliate.

Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer)     18 March 2022

It's a blackmailing tactics, no harm can be done to you except to harash and humiliate.
Yes. But it can be lifelong nightmare. It can be misused to extract money. If one takes the risk and dares the party, it will stop once and for all.

Arjun M Nair   18 March 2022

I had a face-to-face conversation with him today. The hospital story seems like a cooked up one.
They don't want any further contacts with the girl from my side. I said ok. He asked me to leave the job and go to some other place to work.
Can I lodge a complaint against him and her of he calls again and try to threaten me?

Dr J C Vashista (Advocate)     19 March 2022

No case is made out in the given facts.

Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer)     19 March 2022

If you react giving police complaint, you are falling into their trap. What has leaving your job to do with the affair? You should totally deny all that happened and ignore the party alltogether.

Arjun M Nair   19 March 2022

So, should I deny everything and say that nothing is there between us?

Dr. MPS RAMANI Ph.D.[Tech.] (Scientist/Engineer)     20 March 2022

Yes deny everything. If possible deny even that you ever knew her.

Anubha Jain   22 March 2022

The number one step that you should take is file a formal police complaint and hire a lawyer and give him details about your case. Blackmailing is punishable under Section 503 of Indian Penal Code. The girl is blackmailing either to extort money or for just damaging your image which are both punishable offences. Also, if your old whatsapp chats were a substantial evidence then the old messages can be recovered and can be used as an evidence


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