Hello ,
.we married 2.5 yrs ago.The story is long but let me keep it short and simple:
she is torturing me mentally sine the 5th day of my marriage. reasons/grounds are as follows:
1) fighting all the time for trivial reasons with me and my parents.
2) using derrogatory/humiliating words for me n my family.
3 }repugnance towards my relation to her.
4} forcing me to leave my parents for invalid/wrong reasons.
5} eating heavy doses of drugs(anxiolytics) ...blaming me for it as a. to her im the sole cause of her depression and then threatening me about her health/suicide.
6) visiting her parents home on and off very frequently after fighting with me against my will.
7} forcing me every time to take her back from her parent"s house to my house....n ive done this every time.
8} erratic behaviour/looks like borderline personality/mood swings frequent/fighting at one moment and after a while takes bak fights and then starts again after some time.....without any pretext or context.
9) extreme interference of my in_laws in supporting her wrong deeds/even amplifying it.
10} at an instance after quarrelling with me she handed over the mangalsutra,engagement ring and the wedding gown to my mother....although she was not even involved in d discussion....
11} lodged a false complained in the police station against me 1 month back that after a quarrell i told her to leave the house....was not converted into an an FIR...and she as usual went away to my in-laws...but till now the complaint has not been taken back ...also no action has been taken by police as its a trivial issue acc to them.
REASONS FOR ALL THE ABOVE THINGS: HER BAD AGGRESSIVE NATURE/BORDERLINE PERSONALITY/cONSTANT FIGHTING HABITS etc.
no dowry was taken. at the time of marriage they said they want to gift a car...so her father transferred 4-5 lacs rs to my dad's account. but the car was bought by us in the name of my dad before that only and the monthly loan emi is deducted from his account only.
my question: right now she is at my in laws since a month....we are trying to talk to them for a mutual divorce...which obviously they wont agree....the moment theY will know my intentions....they will backfire with 498{domestic voilance or dowry}...well the fact of the case is there is no violance/dowry...but she must be knowing very well how to play her cards as DV is a broad term. HOW can i protect me n my parents from this non-sense?? kindly help me. i will eventually file a contested divorce. but before that i know all this will happen.....HELP!!!! Are there any measures to protect ourselves..??? I would be highly obliged to the respected experts if they give me a detailed advice. thank you.
