Hello Experts,
My SO-CALLED lady tried to attempt suicide twice after marriage. She had issues with my parents post marriage. She did not wanted to stay with my parents because she love freedom but she had never revealed about this before marriage. So, she had made a perfect plan to make me stay seperately by going to her maiden place one fine day telling me and my parents that she will be back within a weeks time. on the 7th day, when i called her up to ask when is she returning back, she said that she do not want to stay with my parents so she will only come back if i take up a seperate house on rent. I tried my best to convince her but she is very stubborn and even her parents were supporting her and had always been supportive for her even if she take any wrong decision. She was one month pregnant and so thought to better stay seperately for a year or two from my parents till everything gets sorted out.
So, finally i took a house and this maharani started staying with me. Ofcourse, it was only me and her staying in that rented house. 10 days passed by, and she used to get frustrated on any silly things... Absolute silly things such as paperboy did not deliver newspaper in time and bla bla bla... I was zapped seeing her wierd behaviour.
Then, on the same day, I had some conflicts with her and she got so damn frustrated that she took blade and was about to rip off her left hand vain but i stopped her. This was her first suicidal attempt.
It was my biggest mistake that I did not inform about this to a nearby police station as I thought she might not repeat the same thing again. But i informed her parents about this and she did not admit that she had made such attempts. I did not inform about this incident to my parents as they will surely blame me for living seperately from them and staying with such maharani.
Months went by, and I invited her parents to stay with us as I got scared about her suicidal tendendy. She then delivered a boy and after he was one month old, there was an another incident where she told me not to go my granny's place as she dont like them. I paid no heed to her baseless argument and I met them but when I came back home, she got very aggressive and took a bottle of Phenyl in her hand and was about to consume but her dad stopped her doing so. This was her second suicidal attempt. Again, I did not inform about this incident to the police station thinking that her parents are witness at the time of this incident.
Instead of making her understand about her mistakes, they were convincing me to stop being in touch with my parents and all relatives.
I had no other option but to inform about the scenario to my parents. The day after her 2nd attempt, she went to her maiden place for recreation. We were in touch over the phone and again we both had conflicts on the phone but I do not know whether she again comitted suicide there.
Since, she was already at her maiden place, my parents called them up and told her parents that if this is going to continue then we will not be held responsible. They agreed to it and my dad told her dad to take signature from her on a letter which states that she had already committed suicides two times on silly issues when she was living with her husband. Henceforth, she will not commit any suicidal attempts and if she does, no one will be held responsible. Also, she will visit Phyciatrist if needed.
The above contents were already been finalised over the phone with her dad and I handed over the letter at her maiden place. He told me he will read it over again and will tell her to sign accordingly.
10 days passed by but they did not turn up so I called him up asking about the letter and he was very much rude saying that she is not willing to sign on any letter.
I had no option but to approach the Family Court for divorce. At the time of counselling in the Court, she has a peculiar style of crying out loud in front of the counsellor saying that she was been forcibly pushed out from the rented house and she never attempted suicide two times. Even her dad denied to reveal of any suicidal attempts done by her wonderful daughter. Instead, she had put allegations saying that I have forcibly pushed her out of the house and told her to sign a letter.
Now, fortunately, I have all her messages on my cellphone in which she had admitted that she had committed suicide two times and one audio recording of the telephonic conversation too.
My question is :- Can messages be considered as core evidence if they are not altered ?
I have backup of these messages on my computer already but my nokia cellphone is not working anymore. So, is it okay if I restore these messages from the backup (using Nokia PC Suite) which is already taken on my computer to some other handset ? Just for you info., if I restore all messages using Nokia PC Suite, then all messages sent from the recipient will be retained as-it-is. Other alternative is, I can show all messages on computer screen to the Judge.
Please suggest me for the best possible option.
