you simply file the case for divorce to husband if you have not a happy life after marriage. Well whatever the views one takes from 90 days passing from date of decree you are free to re-marry and or carry forward with your life. Let him chase Courts to re-open the case. Once decree sheet taken by you and he has special knowledge of such decree in divorce proceedings wither in 30 or 90 days he can appeal against it, he has no business to communicate you now!. one can take is that though all necessary process of serving notice was followed but he intentionally didn’t appear and thus you got an ex Party decree.
At last i say you must have to create good relation like lovers for long time passing years then only after that you will decide to merry.
By Thrust law group Phoenix personal injury attorney