Hello Sirs,
I am 32 Yr old male have been living in London for last 4 yrs my nationality still is Indian, my wife and I are separated since Feb 2011 but she is insisting me to reunion but i am not as she is a mad woman and i have suffered a lot with her, I will just give you quick descripttion about our marriage, we did court marriage discreetly in the year of 2004 but later disclosed it to our parents and soon after they arranged a social marriage in year of 2007 to show relative and friends however i was very reluctant to marry her socially and tried to take my steps back but I had to marry her since i was legally married to her already and also she always used to threatened me to kill herself and always forced me to live with her and i have been living with her unwilling for all these many years, i tried so many times to explain her that i dont want to live her as we always have a nasty fights for every single little thing and don't have any compatibility at all but she always pushed me back and threatened me as usual. In later few years I have realised there is some problem with her behaviour and found out on the internet she is suffering from Border line personality disorder. A person who suffers from this disorder (BPD) becomes very uncertain and unpredictable. she used to cry a lot for no reason or bang her head against floor or wall or sometimes took knife to kill herself... but She always looked very normal in front of others acted like nothing had happened, later she became pregnant and delivered a baby boy in feb 2010 but her miss behaviour continued and became worst day by day i was very fed up with her daily new tantrums and eventually gave up and parted forcefully sending her back to India but in the mean time she showed her true colors and went to Mahila Thana ( Paramarsh Kendra) and lodged a complaint against my family but i was in London so they couldn't do anything and could not file 498a against me and my family.
Now through our common friends she is trying to convince and requesting me to take her back in
Sirs, someone told me if i file divorce case against her wish i will be in a trouble and case can last for years but if i can wait for 2 more years and then file a case on the bases of dissertation, case would go in my favour.
Please advise me what would be the best way to get rid of her i am sick and tired of this woman and don’t want to do any compromises now. Please advice.
Many thanks
Saicharan
