Marrying in tamil nadu the safer way

1. Your pre-nuptials ideas are not that popular in India, though few Indian couples have done it here but there is no effective mechanism for giving it tombstone - foolproof validity as yet.
2. As fellow human being I would suggest you to go for "economics of arrangements" for long term happiness. Now, if you really understood European marriage system as you say then it will not be difficult for you to understand above quote - unquote simple English.
3. You are not "innocent" divorcee but a stupid person to me. Stop using Indian women's tag line "innocent" and now start behaving like a MALE.


BTW, what is wrong with European woman; marry one of them as it will provide you with better "escape" from prosecution under Indian Laws and who knows the child born out of such union will be better in skin color than your current muse - Madam Jaya!

It is really hard for me to understand the above quote pl explain....

"economics of arrangments" = is a temporary marriage under Islamic law (means you change your religion now from Hindu to Muslim). Literally translated, a muta marriage is a ‘marriage for pleasure’, which is valid for a fixed period of time. Such a matrimonial practice is believed to have been practiced since the time of the Prophet in Saudi Arabia. The concept continues to be held valid in the modern school of Muslim law in India, except in case of the Shia’s and the Ithna Ashari Shiite’s..

I see that you you have sent me a personal message, but an unable to open it............ Can you please mail it to 

innocent_divorcee@yahoo.com

Thanks,

Josh

@Innocent , he sends sometime in codes..if you decode that pm you will understand.May be it is your divorcee wify..

Taj...., how this profile photo is connected to you?

I am not prepared to risk marrying again, with out a marriage contract. Someone pl suggest me wiith your opinion on, how I could go about doing that.

Regards,

Josh

What kind of contract do you need.

Only Islamic marriage has the form of contract. You can try that if you wish (you can convert back post marriage).

But then you are not immune from 498A, DVA, 125CrPC and other IPC sections.

Best is to marry someone who's earning as much as you are or even more (have proofs). Has property on her name. Make sure you have no property on your name. Do not buy her anything extra (it'll be gone as stridhan). Share all the expenses. Do not have kids until you are confident about your wife. Gather evidence for any mistake from her side. Live separate from your family in a simple house for a while (1-2 years) with basic amenities. Do not buy car etc.

I could think of those. Members, please feel free to add some more.

Dear self proclaimed Mr.Innocent,

Glad to know your Love and affection towards ur home state and more particularly ur CM.Contract marriages are not prevelant or either incorporated in Indian Marriage Acts,except Muslim Personal Law,hence your aspirations cannot be fulfilled in India and better try ur luck in Europe.I do have concern for the troublesome first marriage of your's,but you have not come out  with the true facts in your original query.Tajobsindia  always advices aptly and correctly as per the contents of the query and hence u need not have a negative attitude towards him.

Marriage is  not a contract,but a religious and a traditional ritual bestowed on us by our ancestors,so it is the bonded duty of both Male and Female to safegaurd the values of it.