Urgent need of advice on divorce

Originally posted by : ANSHU

1.How can I oppose the application filed against my Ex PARTE DECREE .
Take: File preliminary objection with two paras. Get allowed Misc. Application for call for Medical witness and to cross examine Medical Certificate that is one. File certified copies of days order sheet of her regular appearance in maint. case. With both this her re-opening of Divorce (ex party) case will be dismissed. Also pray for heavy cost for engaging Court and you into frivolous litigation. Court will be pleased to grant Cost also.


2. She is appearing in her court for maintenance regularly but here she stated that due to sickness she could not appeared. Hence, how can I oppose this application.
Take: Repeat question see above reply.


3. How can I oppose Case U/s 125 at her court. As she has submitted petition for maintenance on false ground.
Take: Contest her alleged false grounds accordingly. There is no forum mantra in absence of what grounds she alleged could be given as reply to this vague question.


4. I  got an evidence (attested by Govt Official) about her teaching experience for a period of 5 years  at her place. She has appeared in Govt Teachers Exams by using this Experience Certificate. The period of this 5 years are from  Jan. 2006 to Jan 2011. During this period she lived with me during 2006- 2007 and  5 months in 2009 and  at my place. She has accepted this in her petition of U/S 125 at her area court. CAN I FILE ANY CRIMINAL CASE OR OTHER TO HER JUST  SHOW HER THAT WHAT IS RESULT AFTER HARRASING  HUSBAND.
Take: Save it till completion of her evidence and then file perjury upon her.

5.  After  leaving  me in 2009  she is staying with her JIJAJI home. Who is  a Govt Servant with a good POST . Her family and parents are agree for this. But I can not prove ADULTRY. Can  I make her JIJAJI as a PARTY either case or file any case against HIM also.
Take: Donot engage your upper mind into national obsession of wife’s adultery with this much limited info. Today many wives give their advocates address as ordinary residence address that means (I leave rest to whichever imagination one may take this observation as…..) You will burn your pockets in lawyer’s fees and nothing else will come out.

PS:
1. A divorced wife is allowed to seek maint. under S. 125 CrPC which is not question of debate here !
2. In my opinion the ex party divorce has become final. To generic readers in situation like this ensure the decree sheet is published in National newspaper and specially at are where wife last known address to safeguard yourself from such frivolous litigation as asked by this queriest is suggested.

Originally posted by : srividya

i need divorse XXX he constantly fights for very small things 
Take: For small - small matrimonial disputes people should not take bold step of divorce.

 XXX I have a girl baby of 5yrs and she got communication disorder and im giving treatment for her
Take: Medical treatment cost and support are responsibility of both parents. Seek his assistance on this matter too.

also now im planning to take her with me. I need a immediate divorse  
Take: There is no immediate divorce concept anywhere around the world.

XXX initially, this house which we are living is a flat and that one is on loan.but is that possible to take my needed things,like fridge,tv,a/c with me or not sir...
Take: For the time being involve elders from families to sort out small - small disputes in marriage. Failing which seek assistance of Domestic Violence Act and seek via it protection order to stay at same rented home and use its household items along with child support.

 XXX actually he dint beat me..but he fight with me and im totaly died XXX
Take: if he is not beating you and your issue is only limited to small - small quarrel matters then they can be sorted out via counseling. Seek counselors help by approaching local district Courts legal Aid services. They will call both of you and provide counseling.