My husband hit me

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Don't worry, hire a seasoned lawyer.498A cases take time, so don't loose hope.

Originally posted by : Ranee.......
	Don't worry, hire a seasoned lawyer.498A cases take time, so don't loose hope.

ROTFL ..................OYE........OYE.... Ranee .....I see no demands for dowry or harassment ?????

Section 498A was added with a view to punishing husband and his relatives who harass or torture the wife to coerce her or her relatives to satisfy unlawful demands of dowry 

Originally posted by : manno
	in may , my husband hit me so hard, that my ear drum burst . i went to the doctor and got it fixed. however now that my husband has filed for divorce, my lawyer says the doctor's papers will not stand in court because he is not affiliated with any goverment hospital or clinic. is this true? i didn't know the law. but will it allow my husband to go scott-free? do you know a good agressive lawyer in mumbai please. i also don't have too much money. my husband contacted the lawyers in march 2012 quietly, and has had time to cook up proof against me. is there any way wherein i could request the court to ask him to submit his credit card statements and phone bills to me? i know he's been having an affair. also, he earns 1lakh p.m but gives nothing towards the house. i'm ill, and my father sends me mooney for food. I'm going to ask for interim maintenance. how much will I get? mumbai is an expensive city. I don't have anywhere else to go. also, ( i know I may be taking advantage of your help here, I'm sorry. I'm just desperate) he has perfectly healthy parents who he's described as old and frail in his petition. Mother has a job. father has never worked a day in his life. and both parents encouraged him all the 4 yrs that we've been married, to leave me alone in our rented flat and go and live with them. he's a spoilt brat and cannot grow up. money is like oxygen for them. they took out wedding gift money and went for a trip Bankok, we didn't even get to go to lonavala.

1. Even if you dont have money its okay nowdays . My suggestion is approach a woman sympatheic  advocate tell him you dont have money and that you require maintanence compensation etc . He will show a list of cases which you can file like Ranee said file 498 A . He will show you the way/ path/manner in which he will get his share without taking any fees from you .

coming back to the topic 

2. what your lawyer has said is true . When an incident has taken place like this it is the doctors duty to intimate the police and file and FIR which has not been done .Hence not much  weightage to your claim. And i wish to debate over point no 2 with any of the leading experts over here . 

3. I dont understand why you require his credit card statement and phone bills .you can call for the same under CRPC 91 .

4. If your issue is of  maintanence talk to your advocate and tell him to file CRPC 125 you have not diclosed if your are working . As a working women does not get maintanence and if you have minor children than they would get maintanence . As to your question how much you would get none of the experts here can conclude as maintanence is for sustainance and there is no fixed formula for deciding on maintanence in india .

Originally posted by : Ranee.......
	hmm..mistake..I was confused with Bhagwan's post in one of thread posted by Manno..like Stanely got confused as I was not suggesting to file 498A.

ROTFL 

I pray to Bagwan in the morning and in the evening and whatever i ask for in pray i believe and have faith that bagwan will give it to me .

But here i cant see any Bagwan's post  Now Ranee you very well know that i am not a woman sympathiser so dont implicate me in instigating people over here for filing false cases like DV and 498 A . 

You can approach women cell like CAW and file domestic violence case

thts okie. i have his pan card number so i'll always know his salary.

what about credit card statement and phone bill? i need those to prove my case

i don't want to file dowry case just for fun. i have enough true proof of his behaviour, he has allowed his lawyer to lie and 'pad it up', i won't. even though he DID shout at me once or twice about my father not giving me jewellary and tht its embarrassing for them in front of relatives. if they were so embarrased, my mother-in-law could have just lent me her jewellary for few hours. i'm anyway allergic to wearing metal.