Divorce evidence stage

1. You have a weak stand so far if two cases you are contesting and there is none from your side till date.
2. Change your advocate first of all. If she has filed for divorce she has to prove "grounds" and it is immaterial whether you concede to divorce by saying yes give her or by saying no don't give her or by saying I wish to keep her with your kind off vague logics mentioned in your brief. The moment you conede to divorce, S. 498a IPC gets proved as she has mentioned abuse, mental torture and cruelties in her divorce suit matters. She will do straight import of Divorce Decree Order to her S. 498a and possibly convict you. BTW, where are medicals to show your "mental" status? Why no application form her sid ein marital case based on mental status of your sent for medical examination as once a wife alleges such allegations Court allows husband to prove or disproves he is fine human being by subjecting himself to medical tests. Where are witnesses who say you "drinnking" whole crate of Johhny Walker at reception nite and subsequent thereto? Where are neighbourhood girls and aunties to allege you are "characterless"? I mean coming out of bath just wearing Khadhi towel in front of his wife does not mean husband is characterless and since when he is branded so all these your advocate should have cross examined her on these minute minute leading questions ! Were these cross examined by your advocate that you are jumping next not to have your lovely FIL on stand (witness box) ? Her set of dozen allegations are standard petition templates metro wives allege in both S. 498a and S. 125 CrPC and in their      divorce matters more so if they are from S/W field as such dream allegations gives them a kick and algorithms of only these they understand in S/w filed during coffee breaks.
Reason being it looks nothing great was put to her or to her father during 'cross examination" by your current advocate that is why all your next questions are here and same not put in your above brief too.
3. She can give her milkman and laundrywala as witnesses why objecting to her father being witness of hers! People who tell you that her father cannot be her witness are wrong.
3. File an Application for her Passport surrender in Court and another Application for not to get married till S. 498a and Divorce cases are over. Get these two first of all allowed expressly otherwise she will run-away leaving State vs. You (and your side) sightseeing Court for next half a dozen years and meanwhile she will become Mrs. Sandy i.e. married a made in USA guy on her overseas posting as you say in your brief that she is leaving for overseas on assignment J

yes ..my lawyer had done a very good cross questioning ...n she was not having any written/hard copy  evidence to prove her alligations...the only thing she had was...her father..my father gave dowry...my father saw him drinking...my father saw him mental..etc etc........i know i have n number of evidences to show that she was treated well.... n evidences to show that her statements are not true

but i got stuck as someone told me ..that her father verbal evidence is enough to prove u guilty n i was shocked ...

n they say she will anyway get divorce as she is not ready to live with u

If she produces some false witness, may be her father or anybody else, his statement is not taken as gospel truth. He has to produce evidence also. UR LAYWER SHUD PERFORM A GOOD CROSS EXAMINATION OF HIM TO BRING OUT LACUNA IN HIS STORY.

It wil serve ur purpose.

As she is in hurry to get divorce decree and you are interested that Section 498-A case has to be quashed/withdrawn, it is the right time for you to talk with her and go for mutual consent divorce with a condition of withdrawal of Section 498-A before the HC immediately.  About other questions you raised - the court does not bother of quantity of evidence but quality of evidence.  As per your version, most of her deposition is heresay evidence and as long as direct witnesses are available, heresay evidence will not be taken into consideration.  Next her father's future deposition - about drinking, it is not a ground for divorce.  Similarly demanding dowry is also not a ground for divorce.  But these acts are coupled with cruelty then it wll be ground for divorce.  But, again, as per your version, her deposition does not disclose the crule act, there is remote chance for her to get divorce.  So, either yourself or your advocate makes her to understand the bleak (nil) chance of getting divorce,   she may come to terms for mutual consent divorce.  At this stage, you also do not have bright chances of getting divorce on the ground of cruelty.  If in the running divorce case, if you get vexed and give a green signal for her getting divorce on the ground of cruelty, it may hurt you in Section 498-A case.