Respected Sir/Ma'am, I am a 30+yrs independent muslim girl and willing to get married to a hindu boy. In my family i stay with my mother(retired central govt) and my neice. I take care of both of them. My mother is against this relationship. One of my brother who has never interfered in our life for more than 15 yrs now, is interfering our life now and a day back they both(mother and brother)went to the police station and launched a police complain against us that we are just fooling her around and not getting married and she is getting mentally bothered. i have taken efforts individually and mutually to explain her how imp her acceptance is...they also insisted we write and give them that since my mother is not ok with the relation and if we get married and if anything goes wrong with her health we are going to be responsible. (we have not signed anything like that). and she will keep no relation with me and it will be her decision to go where she wants to stay. Out of concern i kept insisting that i would want to continue taking care of her the way i have been doing all these years. but she refused...I am in a relationship for last 10+yrs now and my mother claims i am being used and not getting married. However since this is a inter religion marriage and we both wanted our parents to agree we kept trying to convince them. The boys parents have finally agreed and ever since then past 2yrs i have also been trying to convince my mother but she has started reacting in this fashion. My concern is - 1. if i go through the normal registration procedure - it takes 1month. and one of the advocate advised that if any objection arises in this span, getting married under any other law or circumstances will not be possible.. 2. My mother insists to know when would i get married so that she can move out of the house and look out for her life ahead.But i doubt after knowing when the marriage will happen they would try creating a problem. 3. My mother says if i do not disclose when i would be getting married she will file another case on me(which is undisclosed to me as well). Before the police complain they visited my office to talk to us and created a scene in front of my staff and clients. I need to know what precautionary steps do i need to take to avoid any further trouble. ? If anything happens to my mother why would we both be responsible for that. ? I have been insulted and was humiliating at my office premises and at the police station. Kindly advise. Your advise will be of great help!! Thanking You
