Harasment from my husband

Until 2 sides of the story is heard we cant give you any suggestion. By the way the style you have written down it clearly states that you are playing the double game. Why one need RCR if both of you can sit down and amicably resolve differences. Please have one thought in mind and don't waste the time of experts here. Life is not a game of permutations and Combination life is compromise and it is always lively when you sacrifice somethings and somethings are sacrificed by others. Sit down and resolve matters by cutting your ego's. If not part ways via MCD don't spoil the peace of mind of the other family members both the side.

@ sandevar,

Rightly said.))

u have filed RCR and wait for the proceedings, to complete, he cannot get divorce without your consent, donot jump into conclusions, as far  as maintainence he is liable to pay ,even if he doesnot have job, APEX  had clearly  said that. it is the duty of husband to care of his wife and children. All the other questions are hypothetical as of now, wait for your turn.

Give up ego.Go to him, tell him that you love him and want to stay with him.

See what happens.Ask apology if you have or you feel any of your act has hurt him.

1.   Your briefs till date are laden with one two many inconsistencies. Have a serious look to your first and subsequent queries till date to discover inconsistencies. Any seasoned Lawyer can beat all your allegations squarely.

2.   Suggest to join marital counseling to carve out a path which will selfishly benefit you either as single or being his wife in the long run.

3.   Rest replies from others are not very helpful to you cause title till date unless chamber counseling done face to face.

what i conclude from your post is

i.e 1) U r greedy like hell.

2) No respect of Husband and in laws

3) U r in extra marital

Morale of the story is if u werent the above u wuld have stayed with your husband even if he's earning zero and motivated him to look for new options but ur greed came over and u ran away

Kindly dunno mine wat i said but its true like hell

Munni is back. :-))

Respected members please stop responding this thread. Looks like some fake profile posting hypothetical questions and wasting the time of experts. If she was genuine she would have gone to lawyer and would have initiated the fight. No response from @munni.

Originally posted by : sandevar
	Respected members please stop responding this thread. Looks like some fake profile posting hypothetical questions and wasting the time of experts. If she was genuine she would have gone to lawyer and would have initiated the fight. No response from @munni.

Not a fake profile at all. Its a genuine case of woman who became greedy by the day!>

Dear Madam Ranee,

  Thank you for your reply.. Actually I need that he should be changed, then I may consider.. In such a violance charecter even I am not feeling secure to join wit him..
For this reason only I need help from LCI..

@ Sandevar,

  If some bosy is in problem, and asked some thing her feeling then why you people comment like this.. If you don't like such comments, then better don't reply. That's it.. hope u know that, this forum is for public those who need seek help. then what is the wrong with u?

Only the male member will tell thousend of things against we people..Thsi is the cause for giving priority for women at India, like 498 and DV etc.. For such kind of people such rule shuld be implemented and it should be nonbailable...

Hope government is doing the correct things..

hi,

  You people are making fun out of my  comments.. Any way those who ruin my life, I don't want to leave them.. One day I will update you that I put all of them inside the bar..

 A men can marry or play any thing.. But once some thing happened then what shall a women do? Do you have any thinking power, and simply you people are doing what ever u do..

Thanks govt. for doing some favor for women..

@ Munni, we respect your feelings by the way my comments was more about you acting upon things proactively to save the institution of marriage. Please review my first comment I only suggested you to sit together and take a decision. With only an ambition of ruining your husband you will ruin your career and personal life. Even if you want money from your Husband ask him directly he will pay that for you. But my suggestion is if you're only for money don't put false cases against your husband and their family members sit with elders part ways peacefully. Once you initiate the legal cases viz.... 498A, DV and so on and so forth dont expect any mercy from your husband and their family members and expect 100% divorce that's for sure.

By the way what is your parents suggesting, are they against your husband and in-laws. There are so many complicated things in life which will  be solved via transparancy. Be clear on what you need.

You only consider to join him if he changes his behaviour, being a wife you will be the only person who can change his behaviour and no can change him. that's why girls/women in India have been cannoted to peace. The women should be more service oriented and that doesn't mean that they should bow down to in-laws words. Educate them they will change and be ready to accept your mistakes also and lern from them. Leave your Ego automatically the world will  be clear or you. 

I dont want to comment any further, bottomline you have the law you can use it if you really feel that your husband has tortured you, but if you fail to prove it rest assured in the name of live in peace you will be Rest in Peace one day.

99% of the cases I have seen, like Munni's.

It happens due to tutoring by mother in law.

Husband got a job abroad in Dubai.

He made arrangements for wife to come to Dubai and stay with him.

She went, due to homesickness and language problems she just picked up some quarrel with husband and came back to India and sat at mother's house.

In the meantime she delivered a baby.

Inspite of all such efforts asking her to come back, which went futile.

She went on to file DV case.

The husband was deported whose case I handle.

He told the magistrate, I am ready to take her back, while wife is asking he leave that job and come back to India and become a ghar jamai.

Confused the magistrate said, I cannot order your husband to come back to India and live with you.

Husband went back to Dubai.

Now its been 4 years and pressure is been mounting up on girls parents due to societal causes that girl came off and sat in mom's house.

Now parents of girls somehow convinced the girl to join husband.

Now see the joke, husband is not ready to accept her and has filed divorce case based on mental cruelty as she filed false DV case against her.

Now the DV  case is about to get dismissed, based on that the boy will get divorce 100%.

What I feel bad is, when there was time, when husband was calling her to Dubai, she did not go and join, now after 3-4 years she has learnt lesson that her parents are not there forever, on top a baby is there, she does not have proper job as she has to look after baby.  Now she weeps in front of me, sir ask him to take me back.  But I am unable to convince this fellow.  Why he does not want to take back wife?  Deportation, he was arrested in Dubai and brought to India as if he was a criminal.  Now he wants to fight the entire case.

What a mockery of life.  When time is there people should understand and move ahead together, when hearts are broken, and people are humiliated due to filing false cases, then what is the use in staying together?  Simply waste of time.

Now its not just one divoce case and false DV case, there is a kid also, simply kid will be put to torture in future.

How I wish I could make Munni's understand all this.