It is sad to read your comment. Problem with men like you is that instead of finding a solution to the problem, you would rather close your eyes and pretend to that every thing is fine. One has to face the challenge and try and find a solution to it and not run away from it like a coward. Keeping an escapist attitude has not brought any happiness to anyone. When a problem can be solved though discussions, talks, advises you'd rather let ego take precedence and after months of humiliation when a women reacts you go to the extend of calling her fake and greedy instead of realising that you yourself have been the root cause of this entire drama. Anyway there is no point making men like you understand anything as it would be sheer waste of one's time and energy. Since you already are in deep sh*t you want more and more people to go through the same misery as that is he only way you can make yourself feel any better. Everyone goes through their share of problems, some emerge victorious due to their positive attitude in life while other's like you suffer and make others also suffer for the rest of the life.
All I can say to you is do not misguide people on his forum. This is not the place to provoke people to take steps which will only bring them more problems. It is a problem solving platform and if things can be sorted out through dialogues and peaceful talks, nothing better than it. Stop playing the gender card here as there are equal number of women sufferers in this world who face harassment and humiliation at the hands of men like you. So id you can not give anyone any sane advise, please do not even mislead people. Do not try to generalize the situation as each problem is unique and in most cases both the spouses are at fault. In some men are more at fault and in others women.
