How can i save myself

You have made a mistake and to save your that mistake you are spoiling your life. You should all the things to your family get their confidence and surely they will help you. Without their help you can do nothing as you have seen from a long period. So tell the whole story to your family, it will help you.

do not worry. get relaxed first. every problem has a solution. it will also be solved.

yes first of all you tell yr story to yr family. they must help you. i think you are in good service. loan taken by you in your name. whether car is in yr name? if so complain to police for recovery of car. you will get it back. police is able to collect the call details of yours as well as his mobile. if he called you from a booth then also police will find him. do not worry, it is there day to day job.

first tell yr family, they may rebuked you, but they will find solution. then go to police for fir, i think they will help you. several cases are there. that man understood your physichology and treated you accordingly. he is a cunning person. hate to him.

DOn't be depressed,

Do following things promptly and properly

1. tell the story to u r family

2. File petitione in the nearest District Court for dissolving the Marriage.

3. Lodge Police complaint and take back the car a it is on your name

Anjali,  

first mistake may always be considered but not to repeat it by giving him money and call him ..... just to teach him the lessson

Sir thanks a lo for your reply.. I know marriage is not a joke.. before marriage wo ek achchi jagah rahte the. mujhe yahi batay gaya ki wo unka apna ghar hai.. aur wo uski family sab ek medium family ki tarah rahte the.. usne apne documents bhi dikhaye the. aur mujhe bataya tha ki wo job karta hai.. ek saal tak to pata hi nahi chalne diya ki unke ghar mrin koi prob nahi hai.. lekin baad mein mujhe jab sach pata chala to jaana ki document par jo name tha wo uska nahi usne kisi ke document chori kiye hue the. aur uske paas to 8th class ka certificate nahi tha.

main apni family  ko bata deti, lekin meri mummy papa kafi old hain , wo ye sab jaankar , unhe kuch bhi ho sakta hai..  main apne liye ladna chahti hoon usse.. but papa mummy ko pareshan nahi karna chahti.. isiliye main poocha ki ghar mein bataye bina kya ye prob solve ho sakti hai? kuch din pahle jab uska phone aaya tabse mujhme himmat aa gayi hai... isliye plz kya main akeli apni ladayi nahi lad sakti?

arya samaj se ek certificate mila tha.. wo usi ke paas hai aur photo bhi hain uske paas..

ok. no problem, you alone also can fight. do you not any brother or sister? at least take help of them. tell them all. if it is also not possible, then take help of your colligues / neighbours.

however first file fir. do you know the number of car? go to police/mahila thana first. lodge complain. until a complain is there nothing will happen in favour of you. please do not west time. after meeting the thana post the result here.

Good work Arun Gupta Sir. The sensitivity with which you have replied is worth applauding. Hope the lady gathers strength and solace for future life.

Hey Lady don’t worry. Every problem comes with a solution. First of all search a good job for yourself. This will relieve your stress. File FIR  as suggested by Arup Sir. Steadily take your parents or friends in confidence and tell them what happened to you, I am very sure you will win.

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Dear Anjali,You can file a suit against him for fraud. For more help you can contect me on my mail sachingarg_advocate@yahoo.co.in.

you can also approach some Social Organization. else hire a good lawyer. But honestly speaking, whatever step u will take, your family will come to know, now or later .......... coz any Inquiry Officer or any notice will come in ur name at ur address. You wont be able to hide it for long from ur family. If you donn have guts to tell your family social organisation would help/ asist you in telling your parents the whole story. As far as that Arya Samaj Mandir Certificate is concerned, u can approach that mandir again if they can issue any duplicate certificate or anything in writing.

My advice would be..... its already late...do something at the earliest as you are again giving a chance to that guy to further harrass or blackmail you .... I know a few Social Orgs. Send me ur e-mail id will mail you. my e-mail alok.motan@gmail.com. One thing i could not understand how ur parents couldnt come to knw abt it as you have written that u went into depression and u were taking some medicines, so y ur parents never bothered to knw your problem/ the reason behind ur depression??  Nyhow do consultt a few good lawyers at the earliest or any social organisation. I would further suggest not to make any police complaint before consulting a lawyer now. your lawyer will guide you how to write and what to write. As it would be the base of all your other legal complaints so nothing material fact should be left.

Regds

Can anyone plz translate the query in English?

Miss Anjali....aapki puri baat padhke....aur baaki advices bina padhe...hum aapko yahi advice denge...ki jin maa baap ne aapko, taklif aur pyaar deke palpos ke bada kiya hai...aapko unhe koi dokha nahi dena chahiye...par usse zyada zaruri ye hai, ki aap us 'Chor' ladke ko police ke hantho mein pahuchayen....case ban sakta hai....aur bana hua bhi hai...shadi ke naam pe bewkuf banana, aur paisa ethna, dono hi kanoon ki nazar mein jurm hote hain...aur ho sake to apne ghar walo ko ya ghar mein jo sabse nazdik ho, usko batake apna bojh halka karen aur yah biniti karen ghar walo se, ki wo aapka saath den aur aapko aapki is 'Bewkufi' ke liye kshama karen....ummeed hai aapko humari baat samajh aegi, aur aap amal bhi karengi

Thanks & Regards,

All the Best, and God bless

Sugandh