Blackmail

marriage was carried at aarya samajandir but it is not registered in the court.

you can take injunction against husband and can also report the matter to police.

So what if your message was done in Arya Samaj and not registered, still it's valid and he's right if he ask you back in the matrimonial home with him. Your not joining him is wrong on your part and amounts to desertion. If he's posting your photographs in his Facebook you cannot stop him as he's your husband and he doesn't require your consent or permission to do so. Your blaming him like this wrong on your part, no relief will be allowed from the court for all this. Better return back to matrimonial home and resume conjugal relationship with him.

Ms. Pankaj, being married does not mean that you have surrendered all your rights and liberty. You have your own life and being husband does not mean that he has got every right and liberty and has right to post your photos on a public site without your consent. You have every right to question your husband and also have right to stop him. He cannot force you to live with him against your wishes. Report the matter to police and also file suit for permanent and mandatory injunction against your husband to stop him posting your photos on public site.

Ms. Pankaj, being married does not mean that you have surrendered all your rights and liberty. You have your own life and being husband does not mean that he has got every right and liberty and has right to post your photos on a public site without your consent. You have every right to question your husband and also have right to stop him. He cannot force you to live with him against your wishes. Report the matter to police and also file suit for permanent and mandatory injunction against your husband to stop him posting your photos on public site.

He is playing or joking. U simply warn him if he continues u take him to Ur bedroom&clap with forcely to his cheek so he will surely learn lesson and keep quiet and also become most obedeient husband.

Is it a legal advise??

He has concealed various facts before marriage, he tortured me, harassed me I just can't return to him. he is denying divorce either.

Aryasmaj marriage is valid.

The husband can post his pictures.

The pictures termed as intimate may not necessarily be intimate/obscene!

The period of staying away from one spouse (husband or wife) may amount to desertion and claim as desertion by other spouse.

If one spouse is advancing to cohabitate and crease all differences the other spouse may give IT a chance to save the marriage.

The police complaints may be the final nail and drag the situation to irreversible and irrevocable breakdown.

Instead take help of elders, well wishers, mediators from both sides and give the matter a fair trail to conciliate and have a reunion and save the marriage. The other spouse may agree and stop posting pictures also..

 

If IT doesn’t work then further recourse is open to both spouses.

If both spouses have given best possible and IT is not possible to repair the starined relations and save the marriage then try by MCD on reasonable/amicable terms

 

Or approach court for contested divorce on merits..

 

Avoid rushing to courts until your counsel has opined on merits being on your side.

A good counsel shall not rush the clients to court.

 

You may take help for any matter from, elders of your family, competent and experienced well wishers, seasoned PIP’s, helpgroups, community leaders, NGO’s, experienced colleagues, associations, religious scholars/leaders, influential persons, Employee’s/Trade union leaders, help groups for spouses (Husband/wife) etc and find a very able LOCAL counsel specializing in concerned filed of law e.g; Family/Civil matters as in your case, and well versed with LOCAL applicable rules, precedence, latest judgments etc …. and worth his/her salt, can advise you after examining all case related docs, inputs, evidences on record.

Obtain proper legal opinion in writing!

 

Avoid acting on your own on hearsay.

 

 

 

Not only your counsel ( if other very able counsel opine that 1st counsel’s advise was bad, misleading) many posing as Lawyers (actually Liar) have been raking up disputes at online portals including LCI on subjects like ; WILL, Nomination, Gratuity etc etc with their misleading, illegal advices and conduct..and have failed due to untiring efforts by some sincere and good natured Experts that indeed want to help and contribute at such portals. Such entities operate by forming gangs ( ikdi, dukdi, tikdi, chokdi and even more)….and attempt to deflect, divert to other members of their gangs to fleece the unsuspecting querists. Many of such entities have never been to courts and might have never won in any case and may not be able to count even on their fingertips. In the end multiple fake ID’s of such IT’s and entities get permanently blacklisted, shunted out at online portals and outside online portals and even society………and that is exactly what they deserve. Make a note of such entities and if the need be act to confine them to correctional centers; Jail, and let their cost and consequences be, heritable. Why such IT’s and entities litter nuisance at online portals: to hide their own weaknesses, and to satiate their insatiable itch and due to their infectious greed. One should stay away from such infected entities and hence away from such infection. You may post if anyone has ever asked /is asking for money from you have paid.

 

 

One should not fall for IT’s and entities loitering at online portals to allure unsuspecting querists.

There are many threads on such instances at LCI also. Online discussions are not substitute to in person discussions with a very able counsel of unshakable repute and integrity specializing in concerned field of law. One should not fall for IT’s and entities loitering at online portals to allure unsuspecting querists…… the personal details of unsuspecting querists/citizens get stored in databanks/compromised.

Such IT’s and entities keep on poping up at online portals with fake and new ID’s after their old ID’s are permanently blacklisted/shunted out and money fleeced from unsuspecting is finished.

There are such very able counsels at each location. Check for such counsels at LOCAL; Family/Civil Courts, HC, SC,..

 

 

You can also try for FREE legal Aid from Legal aid center (DLSA) that is usually within LOCAL courts complex..preferably from a very able counsel specializing in Family/Civil matters.

 

Your counsels may opine that you can appear on 1st date, and obtain copies of petition etc to reply later ….and inform the court that you shall be engaging a counsel and appear thru your counsel….Or your counsel can appear and obtain copies of petition etc and reply later or your new counsel can appear for you. Your counsels can advise after examining all docs/record/inputs pertaining to your matter and help you. You can also search threads on similar query in SEARCH option ON left Hand side of threads in Forum/Experts section. Having learnt a lesson, remember to consult beforehand for your matters or any matter about which you are not properly informed.

 

 

There have many instances of such entities operating with multiple fake Id’s at online portals. The FEE of all LOCAL counsels at all LOCATIONS is not high/unreasonable as mis-believed by many. Many counsels even at State Capital/Metro towns do not demand unreasonable high FEE. IT is rather at online portals that unsuspecting querists are mislead as per many publications, by IT’s and Entities that pose as some Lawyer (actually LIAR) and flaunt/advertise firms that are not Law Firms (Actually LIAR’s Firms) to believe that LOCAL counsels are not knowledgeable..are incompetent. In Reality the LOCAL counsels win cases in LOCAL courts at all LOCATIONS. You can go thru/search the cases contested by any Lawyer at court website.

 

State of unsound mind as diagnosed and confirmd by Medical Specialist and counsel may be a ground of divorce.

Let your own LOCAL counsel opine on IT.