Hello,
1. Mostly in the court the allegations made in the 498A are proved false as the witnesses are interested witness.
2. Your advocate will have to examine all the witnesses to prove your case and disprove her allegations.
3. mere allegations of asking money/dowry will not suffice, there should be incidents where witnesses can state that she was forced out of house, if she was beaten up any treatment or medical consultancy papers, NC lodged of the incidents etc.
4. 498a is a criminal trial so the circumstantial evidence leading to the incidents of allegations are to be proved, so questions are usually asked accordingly to disprove wife claims.
Regards,
Joy Bose