This is related to my marriage and a criminal consipracy that was hatched by my wife's mother (Seema). Seema is the one giving orders in her house, and unfortunatley my wife (Kavya) is a victim of being controlled by her mother even in my house. This has caused problems in my marriage and has also started affecting our young daughter. Ever since Seema realized that I won't allow her control in my house, she started behaving strangely. Seema is a strong willed person and usually gets her way in life and also controls her husband ( my wife's father ) too.
My wife's parents are originally Indians and are working in South Africa (SA) for many years. Our marriage was held in India in 2008. My wife was an Indian citizen at the time of the marriage. Our marriage was a christian marriage held in a church in India and was also legally registered in India. My wife took SA citizenship in 2010 and now she has an OCI ( Overseas citizen of India ) card/stamp on her SA passport just like her parents. She can travel to India using the OCI card and she has all rights;
except voting rights here in India.
My wife and I visited SA together in 2009. Seema took me to religious places during that visit and I fell sick mysteriously after that during my stay in South Africa. I later returned to India to continue with my job. But my wife stayed on there so that she could find a job in SA and also due to the fact that;
she could not get a job here in India after our marriage.
My mysterious illness continued in India. I finaly decided to join my wife in SA where she managed to get a job. I too applied and got a job there.
My daughter was born in SA in 2011 and she has a SA passport but no OCI as yet. During my wife's pregnancy she did not have much support from her mother and this caused more stress to all of us. My illness got worse during that time and even doctors could not say what caused it. I have traveled and worked in different parts of India for many years; and also abroad. But I never had any such illness.
Finaly due to tensions in the house; Seema suggested that I should visit a psychiatrist in SA. This was where my porblems increased. The doctor was known to them and was taking their side without giving importance to my views. Only later did I realize that this was part of the conspiracy just to ask for a divorce. Seema used to tell my wife that it is better to end the marriage because I have psychiatric problems. The doctor gave me medicines which caused me a lot of side effects, but no relief at all, and my situation worsened. I lost my job due to all the issues.
My wife Kavya told me that I have no choice but to take the medicines or she will end the marriage. I told her that the medicines were causing me more problems instead of helping me, but Seema always made it appear as though I was at fault and this problem existed before marriage. It became very obvious that she wanted to blame me and my family for this.
Majority of my savings were invested in a house that was purchased in my wife's name in SA. Then home loan was approved in her name since only she had the SA citizenship; I was on a work visa. I also transferred money every month into the home loan account held in my wife's name.
Today I am in India and my wife and my daughter are in South Africa. Right now she has almost all my money and my daughter and she does not even allow regular access via phone/online with my daughter. She phoned me saying that she wants a divorce.
My issues:
1) My wife and family don't give me access to my daughter.
2) My wife has the SA house in her name and almost all my savings/money and they don't want to return it. But as per SA rule she needs husband's signature when she sells the house.
3) They want more money from me saying it is for maintenance of child ( Rs. 45,000 per month )
4) My wife wants me to grant her life time permission to take my daughter anywhere in the world without any further future approvals. This way they don't have to interact with me in future for further approvals(SA rule); rather than a case by case approach.
5) I fell sick mysteriously in South Africa; they forced me to take medicines and no one knows how it happened. My wife's family blames me for this and wants money from me.
6) A toxic elements blood test done in India shows presence of toxic Heavy Metals like Arsenic in my blood which causes a lot of problems.
7) Wife and family keep visiting India and have property in India; I have also transferred money into wife's fathers NRI account held in India and also given a cheque to my wife's mother.
8) I have not taken medicines for more than 3 years now especially since NIMHANS doctors have told me that all the earlier medicines were to be stopped immediatelly and I don't need them. They also told me that taking the medicines without any reason will be counter productive and could cause problems instead of solving them.
All the above make my relatives and my family to believe that this was part of a criminal conspiracy to end the marriage saying I was a sick person and to also take away all my money and my daughter and finaly a divorce.
Query:
1) How can I file a criminal case in India as regards the above; especially considering the fact that I am an Indian citizen currently staying in India; and all the above occurred in South Africa during my stay there?
I would not prefer to file a criminal case in SA as it would be difficult to deal with lawyers in SA while I am in India and I would like to avoid traveling to SA. I was also told that if I contest in SA then I may lose the right to contest in India (something related to Foregin Decree).
Where in India can I perform a definitive or a conclusive test to confirm if I was poisoned in SA with Arsenic or other Heavy Metals; so that it is valid in the Indian court?
Is it possible for me to file a criminal case in India against my mother in law and my wife's family?
