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Khuku Das   02 January 2019

divorce on the basis of impotency

I am 29 years old girl. I got married on 29 jan 2016(social)/27 nov 2015(registry) with a guy. We are from west bengal but he lives in chennai for work purpose. After marriage i shifted to chennai with him. After marriage i was diagnosed with TB(Tubercular lymphadenitis) And in these 3 years of our marriage we didnt had intercourse even once. He use to make excuses of my medication for not getting intimate. While non of the doctor had advised for not getting intimate. After 2 years on marriage i started sharing this with my friends and colleagues. Then i realised the fact that it is not normal. A man can never control himself. 3 years and still virgin... its quite unusual. And still for the fear of getting infection there are protections available in market. Then i started asking him for the treatment but then he makes silly excuses. I couldnt share this with my parents and relatives. On nov 2018 i told everything to my parents. After this he got ready to go to a s*xologist. We went there and then doctor suggested a test, so that according to that he will continue the treatment. But my husband didnot want test. Makes excuses. I even told him that do the test and the treatment and if it comes negative then also i am with you. But still he is not ready for the test. After so much of trying when i failed, i came back to my parents in kolkata. And also apart from this he raised his hands on me 2 times. 1st time he kept a knife on my neck and said that he will kill me and second time in this oct he beat me so hard that i couldnt move my hands for 3 days. Also one ay i accidently touched his ph and saw the msgs his father had sent him asking him to "tight" me, to talk with temper. I got very depressed on seeing all these. And i am staying here from the past one month and in this one month i didnt even got a single msg or call from his side. I want to file a case against him on the basis of physical and mental abuse but it will be time consuming. After 3 years of marriage can i file a divorce case against him on the basis of impotency?


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Adv Deepak Joshi +917017821512 (Advocate)     02 January 2019

Dear querist,

 

Hire local lawyer and file case of divorce under cruelty and impotency of your husband.

 

 

Regards

Deepak Joshi & Associates

Djaa.legal@gmail.com

Mb/whatsapp +919456777600

Khuku Das   02 January 2019

we have our legal advisor and he is saying that the time period for filing a case under impotency is within one year but in my case its already 3 years. my query is that after 3 years is it possible to file a case under impotency? coz he is saying that my case is weak. its already 3 years.

Khuku Das   02 January 2019

please help

(Guest)

@khuku,

why dont you file 498a case against your impotent husband and his family members? 

Khuku Das   03 January 2019

I want to. I want punishment for him and his father. But all are saying that it will be time consuming.

Khuku Das   03 January 2019

I want to. I want punishment for him and his father. But all are saying that it will be time consuming.

(Guest)

anyway he is impotent and sadistic family who harassed you and ruined your life.Let it take time and get justice for their punishment.


(Guest)

@khukhu,

give me your contact number, i will help you out in this.

Vijay Raj Mahajan (Advocate)     03 January 2019

Your local legal advisor be lack knowledge of divorce law. The ground for divorce can be cruelty on the basis of refusal for s*xual relationship with you, indulging in sadistic activities by him and his other family members. There is no time limit of 1 year for filling the divorce petition on these two grounds of creulty. You're not making impotency as ground but refusal for marital s*x as ground of creulty against him. It will be on him to prove his potency to refute and prove charges of refusal of s*x with you in the court and if he's unable to prove it medically your charge of refusal for s*xual relationship will get dissolution of marriage.
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Shashi Dhara   03 January 2019

It is only failed marraige.dont think revenge about.it. Ur r stiilin young age think about future.dont fight with wind. It decades to end.end the marriage with mutual consent

(Guest)
Originally posted by : Khuku Das
I am 29 years old girl. I got married on 29 jan 2016(social)/27 nov 2015(registry) with a guy. We are from west bengal but he lives in chennai for work purpose. After marriage i shifted to chennai with him. After marriage i was diagnosed with TB(Tubercular lymphadenitis) And in these 3 years of our marriage we didnt had intercourse even once. He use to make excuses of my medication for not getting intimate. While non of the doctor had advised for not getting intimate. After 2 years on marriage i started sharing this with my friends and colleagues. Then i realised the fact that it is not normal. A man can never control himself. 3 years and still virgin... its quite unusual. And still for the fear of getting infection there are protections available in market. Then i started asking him for the treatment but then he makes silly excuses. I couldnt share this with my parents and relatives. On nov 2018 i told everything to my parents. After this he got ready to go to a s*xologist. We went there and then doctor suggested a test, so that according to that he will continue the treatment. But my husband didnot want test. Makes excuses. I even told him that do the test and the treatment and if it comes negative then also i am with you. But still he is not ready for the test. After so much of trying when i failed, i came back to my parents in kolkata. And also apart from this he raised his hands on me 2 times. 1st time he kept a knife on my neck and said that he will kill me and second time in this oct he beat me so hard that i couldnt move my hands for 3 days. Also one ay i accidently touched his ph and saw the msgs his father had sent him asking him to "tight" me, to talk with temper. I got very depressed on seeing all these. And i am staying here from the past one month and in this one month i didnt even got a single msg or call from his side. I want to file a case against him on the basis of physical and mental abuse but it will be time consuming. After 3 years of marriage can i file a divorce case against him on the basis of impotency?

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Khuku Das   03 January 2019

thank you very much Vijay Raj Mahajan sir...

Khuku Das   03 January 2019

@Shashi Dhara... i know if i go for their punishment it will be time consuming. i want to send them in jail or at least they should be beaten up by police. i cannot do anything. that is why criminals like them are roaming around in our society bravely. they know that people like us cannot do anything. if we try to do it will be our loss only. both money and time consuming process.

(Guest)

@khuku,

how do you know i cant do anything.? in my case my impotent husband and his family people are beatenup by police and now they are in jail. 

 

 


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